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Author: crazycool Time: 2009-6-22 14:04
Title: Will you marry me?
For girls,

If your boyfriend doesn't afford to buy a house/apartment in the minimum of next 10yrs, will u still marry him? (Assume everyone around you think you shouldn't)

For boys,
If you are the boyfriend in the above scenario, will u propose?

Author: catnfish Time: 2009-6-22 15:21
As a girl, I'd like to say it depends on how much I love him

I won't say that every girl has a little abacus that she counts every tiny thing in her relationship, but on this account girls will definitely weigh the pros and cons.

~

As for me, if he lets me have my fav snacks on our bed while watching girl's type movie with me and give me sweet kisses just at the right time, ignoring craps of biscuts in my mouth, I probably say yes

~

he's already more of a husband to me in such a case~

Author: crazycool Time: 2009-6-22 15:42

catnfish: As a girl, I'd like to say it depends on how much I love him

I won't say that every girl has a little abacus that she counts every tiny thing in he

&quot;a little abacus&quot; LOL is every girl a talent accountant?

i read some of your blog i find that you like travelling

so if u really love your BF, but marring him means you have to give up a lot
for instance, you favorite travelling.
and after the marriage, u will gradually find that you've given up far more than you expected, and u may possibly find that you don't love him as much as before

after all, love cannot last too long, but you always have to face the practial problem

Author: catnfish Time: 2009-6-22 16:52

crazycool: &quot;a little abacus&quot; LOL is every girl a talent accountant?i read some of your blog i find that you like travelling

so if u reall

hmm why do I have to give up traveling? I mean we can travel somewhere close. For what I'm looking for in trips are still the same that won't change. If I go somewhere near (even just in BJ, taking a bus trip around the city with him, I still find something new and away from home)~ there are always alternatives.

it seems that you'd love to hear negative comments such as I can't marry him for he can't afford a house for us...~ ha~

Author: spaceone Time: 2009-6-22 16:59
it's hard to say about these Q ~~as for me~ it's still too far away,but if i love him more than myself...i think i will marry him..if we love each other ,we can lay siege to it together~~

Author: crazycool Time: 2009-6-23 10:34

catnfish: hmm why do I have to give up traveling? I mean we can travel somewhere close. For what I'm looking for in trips are still the same that won't change.

i don't think i'm seeking the negative comments, coz i'm also a guy cannot afford a house. maybe, i want to prove that people are getting more realistic, material or snobbish than they used to be

i anticipated that most of the relies would say &quot;yes if i really love him&quot;
people like you answer yes, only in the hypothesis of &quot;if i really love him&quot;
but, in my opinion, this is the most difficult thing.

i should mention, i didn't say you have to give up travelling. that was just an example. what i meant was you need to sacrifice things like, instead of traveling oversea, you can only travel nearby

Author: crazycool Time: 2009-6-23 10:36

spaceone: it's hard to say about these Q ~~as for me~ it's still too far away,but if i love him more than myself...i think i will marry him..if we love each oth

i understand, but you have to find a person that you love more than yourself

Author: spaceone Time: 2009-6-23 10:54

crazycool: i understand, but you have to find a person that you love more than yourself

it's very difficulty for me to find a personal and love him more than myself.. hah~~because i always can not take care of someone or
myself ~~so failure.......

Author: crazycool Time: 2009-6-23 12:12

spaceone: it's very difficulty for me to find a personal and love him more than myself.. hah~~because i always can not take care of someone or
myself ~~so

then find someone can take care of you

Author: spaceone Time: 2009-6-23 18:26

crazycool: then find someone can take care of you

no~~i have to learn how to take care of myself~~

Author: spaceone Time: 2009-6-23 19:16

crazycool: find the Mr. right to look after u is such a sweet thing
but i'd like you hear that you are learning to be independent

yes~~ I believe that soon I am the independent one
..and then i can take care of myself~~not others

Author: wangfei919 Time: 2009-6-24 17:06
That a tough question, actually, although money is not a prime concern for me, but is a basic level before building a family. Well, i think if he could strive for the family, and i do love him, i would say yes.

Author: crazycool Time: 2009-6-24 18:35

wangfei919: That a tough question, actually, although money is not a prime concern for me, but is a basic level before building a family. Well, i think if he coul

i've heard so many stories that people had broken down only because of their family's backgrounds are far different.

if your family is in the high level of social status, but your BF's family are struggling to live in the lower level, then there will be a lot resistence. no matter how you love each other, you two will be apart, since your parents are more experienced and they are always considering your future.

Author: wangfei919 Time: 2009-6-24 18:59

crazycool: i've heard so many stories that people had broken down only because of their family's backgrounds are far different.

if your family is in the high le

yep, well, i always persuade myself that i'm not a destiny-believed person. But, it might be an excuse, i attribute those things to fate.

Author: crazycool Time: 2009-6-24 20:18

wangfei919: yep, well, i always persuade myself that i'm not a destiny-believed person. But, it might be an excuse, i attribute those things to fate.

i'm a sort of superstitious person,
i believe that my destiny had been decided on the day of my birth

i have a belief: because of people have different characteristics, then they make different chioces, that's why we have different fate

Author: Shasha Time: 2009-6-25 00:59
sounds a little bit ridiculous~...

Author: crazycool Time: 2009-6-25 18:37

Shasha: sounds a little bit ridiculous~...

people have a variety of beliefs because they have different experiences and
characters

you don't have to believe in them, but i doesn't mean thet are unreal.
you possibly will start to trust some of them as you grow up

Author: jing Time: 2009-7-3 11:09
If i really love him!i don't care anything!!but where is he?

Author: crazycool Time: 2009-7-3 13:30

jing: If i really love him!i don't care anything!!but where is he?

u haven't found a man u really love? hope u will find him in the near future

Author: jing Time: 2009-7-3 13:34

crazycool: u haven't found a man u really love? hope u will find him in the near future

i am afraid that it's very difficult!!

Author: crazycool Time: 2009-7-3 19:35

jing: i am afraid that it's very difficult!!

hard but not impossible

Author: crazycool Time: 2009-7-3 19:37

756925876: As a man , I don't think i will do so .To me ,if I love her ,I should take some responsebility of giving her happiness which definitly includes the b

we are like-minded men

Author: jing Time: 2009-7-4 10:05
maybe!!!!

Author: monkeylinstar Time: 2009-7-13 08:26
we can't decide it just by ourselves. cuz a marriage is not decided just by the girl herself. OK,if i were that boy,i would not marry with my love before i could afford her a good substantial life. though,we love each other very much, only love is totally not enough.

Author: crazycool Time: 2009-7-13 19:49

monkeylinstar: we can't decide it just by ourselves. cuz a marriage is not decided just by the girl herself. OK,if i were that boy,i would not marry with my love bef

now i have a female supporter, i absolutelt think love should be built on the certain minimum level of material wealth agreed by the couple

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