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Title: To find a real friend [Print]
Author: huckabee    Time: 2010-5-4 20:50
Friendship is one soul abiding in two bodies, as the old philosopher says. One cannot be too critical in selection of a friend to be. Prepare to make concessions or even sacrifices if one really wants to find a real friend.
Author: fairy0612    Time: 2010-5-4 21:41
It's hard for me too, once I thought I have found her, but later I found myself wrong...
Author: cl381924577    Time: 2010-5-4 22:52
Friendship,I had it once, I lost it by a quarrel.I often think whether it will come back .I finally konw it's impossible.What a beauty dream.
Author: Cilla    Time: 2010-5-5 00:07
The key to make friends is to be sincere to others. Real friend can be few, but if you treat others sincerely, you will be treated equally~
Author: windhearer    Time: 2010-5-5 17:34
ytjf: yes,i think to find a real friend is hard to me .
Have the same feeling
Author: windhearer    Time: 2010-5-5 17:36
huckabee: Friendship is one soul abiding in two bodies, as the old philosopher says. One cannot be too critical in selection of a friend to be. Prepare to make
I am in complete agreement with you
Author: windhearer    Time: 2010-5-5 17:37
fairy0612: It's hard for me too, once I thought I have found her, but later I found myself wrong...
Maybe what you experienced is sth. I did
Author: windhearer    Time: 2010-5-5 17:39
cl381924577: Friendship,I had it once, I lost it by a quarrel.I often think whether it will come back .I finally konw it's impossible.What a beauty dream.
Because of a quarrel you lost a friend , who i think is not a real friend .
Author: sunnyv    Time: 2010-5-6 22:15
Yes, it is indeed hard to find a friend who can talk frankly heart to heart without condition, competition or selfishness. They want to know all about you but they are distrustful in letting you know what is in their heart. I wonder why can't people talk and discuss personal problems in depth. Both will benefit because things seen from a different angle can have different result. There is a chinese saying, "the bystanders see things more clear" Looking back, I found I benefitted a lot from support from friends, but nowadays the friends are only interested in what you can offer to them. It is indeed pitiful and if it goes on like this people would be driven to the extreme and can't enjoy normal happy life. So let us offer a helping hand to others who need it. United we stand, divided we fall.
Author: sunnyv    Time: 2010-5-6 22:51
fairy0612: what you said is exactly correct. Nowadays people all have a selfish thought, if they can benefit from you, they call you friends, once they cannot an
True, that is what I observed too. Glad to know that you have the same experience, so I can say this situation is getting common. Indeed a pity. People are programmed to need others and if this goes on, it will be sad for many.
Author: windhearer    Time: 2010-5-7 10:11
sunnyv: Yes, it is indeed hard to find a friend who can talk frankly heart to heart without condition, competition or selfishness. They want to know all about
Indeed thank you for your clear and unique view on friend and friendship . As you said , if everyone has the same idea as you and can treat each other sincerely with a considerate and frank heart , i think he or she will be able to make more real friends , as is expected for all .
Author: Sarena    Time: 2010-5-11 00:04
It`s really hard to find a real friend! But we always need friends....
Author: C.Robert    Time: 2010-5-11 02:38
I believe it's not that hard to find real friends. As we can see here, everybody wants to have real friends, everybody is looking for them. Why then is it so hard to find them, if we all want real friends? Are we a good friend to others?

I believe it is a problem of our strategy or of our expectations...
Author: windhearer    Time: 2010-5-11 12:57
C.Robert: I believe it's not that hard to find real friends. As we can see here, everybody wants to have real friends, everybody is looking for them. Why then i
Sounds reasonable . We can find our friends around us
Author: Sarena    Time: 2010-5-15 23:39
I have got some real friends before,but after entering college I have`nt found one yet... It`s really hard to find a real friend in college,I`m still searching,I believe I can find one some day, it may takes some while,but I just believe that.
Author: windhearer    Time: 2010-5-16 11:37
May you succeed in doing that
Author: windhearer    Time: 2010-5-17 12:21
absolutely right



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