Recently many school were closed for summer vocation in most of our cities. Some kids take a temporary rest during this vocation, playing games with their friends, some of them will start to get into another battle for participating in different cram school or interest class, it's the major way for improving our children for growing up,especially in past few years. We even have a bias that we could not let our children lose the starting line.In order to send our children to accept high quality education,We spare no expense to buy school district houses which we never to live or even can not live within no space.One of my friends that his daughter will attend nursery school in around his house at NingBo. There was only about 100 seats, but above 200 children need to attend school education.It's more hateful that the inner employees have the priority to choose.50% of them will not the opportunity to go to school. Only if they send their children to private school with high tuition and far away from where they live now. We hardly take full focus on our children when they come to the world. The children is the family's center, we lost ourselves as the time pass by. This is common phenomenon, but accepting by public.Especially for women in modern society. They sacrifice lots of things, no care about her stature, no concern about her dressing up.Even fewer time to go shopping with their close friends.Taking full time to take care of our children and family affairs.Children is one part of your life, not full.Time is high elastic, we don't have time often means it is not priority in our heart.There is time,even if we are busy,we have time for what matters.And when we focus on what matters, we can built our lives we want in the time we've got.All in all, we are not in a position to say that full attention is bad or good.The things we can do for balance the family and ourselves.We provide better environment for our generations, not because we want them to compare scores with others, but because we hope that they can have the rights to choose in the future.Choose a meaningful job with more free time, and don't be forces to make a living.