I think many of views know about a famous movie called <Flipped>,which is about talking a story about boy and girl's loving story ,basically ,at first ,it is more like a girl had a crush on a boy from very young age since the boy moved to her community ,became a neighbor. Anyway , story about love ,and finally ,they fell in love with each other .

For me ,an 27-year-old man ,at my age ,in China ,it is more like an old man who should ,technically ,are supposed to get married .But I am still alone ,sometimes ,I just find some excuses to comfort myself ,after years ,some reasons like ,I am still young, not in such a hurry; I should pay more attention on my career, first thing first and so on…But my parents like other traditional thousand Chinese parents ,from their points ,they think it is my age to build a family ,not only their son was already reached a marriage age ,but influenced by the people who is younger than me was married or even some of them had a one or two babies, in this circumstance ,they feel more pressure around ,and in their daily conversation ,when other people taking about their grandchildren’s school ,how cute they are ,but they don’t have anything to say ,only envy. The pressure makes them more anxious and can’t set themselves into other things .

It is a common phenomenon in China , especially in some remote areas and second - or third-tier cities. As for some strugglers in some big cities , like :Beijing ,shanghai , Shenzhen …….80% of them from other cities who was graduated from college are likely to find a new challenge or chance in biggest cities ,they are not willing to give up the last chance here to back their hometown to settle down .in some point ,they are afraid to be faced with some mocks about how long they spend their time to struggle outside ,and with empty hands .People always want to be praised and be a successful one other parents are talking about ,and they want to be a real model for others .In the same generation ,they want to be superior than others ,and also ,we can say ,they are fragile to be a loser ,they don’t want to let their parents down ,really care about what other people’s opinions ……..That is the results they can’t take .

As far as I am concerned ,I am so one of these generations ,I kind of losing myself .It doesn’t mean you are a loser ,but for many of us ,after yeas ,they can’t find a way what they into it ,so it leads to confusion ,anxiety ……Fortunately ,I am little luckier than others ,I find my way in English ,I practice more and more ,to find any chance to speak with others in shanghai ,to read as many as English novels and newspapers to improve my English .

A couple days ago ,I knew a girl who was introduced by one of my best friends .She is great and we have so much in common .sometimes ,we talked a lot till medium-night, the feeling is great that I haven’t had for couple years ,since I broke up with my ex-girlfriend .Now ,I think it is called “flipped “,it is amazing for us .

And I am ready to put myself into another relationship and I don’t care what is in the end ,it is still worth trying my hearts in it .

Good lucky !