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It doesn’t exist the two same leaves in the world. And human beings is different from each other.
Every person has its own thoughts, views and attitudes. So, communications between persons become very important. However, misunderstanding is always engendered.
Girls usually are careful and sensitive. Every sentence can become a bomb. Everyday, I have to be serious about what I want to say. Or, we will be strangers for a long time. That’s too bad. Nevertheless, I’m tired of the fragile relationship! I have made a lot of efforts to keep the relationships. And now I realized that I can’t control other people’s idea.
I have figure this out. If there is misunderstanding, I will explain it. If I am right, it’s unnecessary to apologize.
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Post comment Comment (15 replies)
- Reply lhtchristine
- Actually, the best way to solve such problem is to communicate. Tell them what you think and try to understand what they think. Everything will be fine.
- Reply Candy.liu
- As old saying "you can't clap with one hand", nice communication needs mutual understanding.
- Reply zhouying2012
- “If there is misunderstanding, I will explain it. If I am right, it’s unnecessary to apologize.”
It's my opinion and my way for handing relationships. Maybe many peoples would say we're stubborn, but I insist it.
- Reply kuin
- The style of you dealing with the things is similar with me.I won't talk to her if there's misunderstanding between us and I don't think I have do something wrong.But if the thing is too serious ,I will find a chance talking to her calmly,then the gap wll gone away,and we will be closer than before.
- Reply 2amlittle
- I agree with you.
lhtchristine: Actually, the best way to solve such problem is to communicate. Tell them what you think and try to understand what they think. Everything will be fin ...
- Reply sharemy
- Not everyone can be your friend and can get along with others very well.Not only the communication is impotant but also the understanding.If you have tried to explain the misunderstandings or your some behaviors many times and she can't understand you , nothing will be useful for keeping the relationship. Just be yourslf!
- Reply Lisa-ideal
- I just can't communicate with the people who dislike me. But your method is the most effevtive way. Thank you very much!
lhtchristine: Actually, the best way to solve such problem is to communicate. Tell them what you think and try to understand what they think. Everything will be fin ...
- Reply Lisa-ideal
- You are right. I still is imperfect. I have many default, too. Sometimes, I will judge someone else with my own standard. Anyway, thanks for your words.
Candy.liu: As old saying "you can't clap with one hand", nice communication needs mutual understanding.
- Reply Lisa-ideal
- Thanks for your support! I'm just tired of explaining.
zhouying2012: “If there is misunderstanding, I will explain it. If I am right, it’s unnecessary to apologize.”
It's my opinion and my way for handing relationshi ...
- Reply Lisa-ideal
- Thank you. I will do it.
COLMAN: "Do what you think it right". that's ok
- Reply Lisa-ideal
- You are smarter than me. I will try to change myself in the future.
kuin: The style of you dealing with the things is similar with me.I won't talk to her if there's misunderstanding between us and I don't think I have do som ...
- Reply Lisa-ideal
- OK. I will try. Thank you very much
2amlittle: I agree with you.
- Reply Lisa-ideal
- You are totally thinking the same with me!
sharemy: Not everyone can be your friend and can get along with others very well.Not only the communication is impotant but also the understanding.If you have ...
- Reply A-C
- Anyhow, favorable communication makes an significant effect on interpersonal relationship. As far as I am concerned, it's meaningless to investigate who are wrong when the misunderstand occurs. No matter you are right or wrong, we do have the responsibility to explain to other person. We can't care too much if someone is still indifferent. The key point is that friends are better than enemies.
