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As to travel,I need to say the reality is,when we have time we don't have enough money to travel,but as long as we have money,we are lack of avaliable time on travelling.College time is the final chance that a man have abundant time to go travelling,after working,there won't be much appropriate time left.Last year in the national day,it was my first time to have so long a holiday,naturally I was thinking of going travelling,but to my superise is,my mother refuse me.At that time,how eager I was to go travel,how don't understand I was to my mother's decision.She told me to stay in the library to prepare for my IELTS,and said that she was lacked of money.Eventhough my father said he can give me the money,I refused.
I know well about my mother,so I know that she want me to study also is to save her money.But can I blame on her of that?I think the answer is "no",although in the national day I was so upset that I even don't want to answer her call.The thing I need to remember is that,I am an adult now,as to the law I just need to earn money by myself,so my parents now afford my life is just because of the affection and favor,there is no need for them to do so.Now I do the part-time job in the library,and I save the money I earn together to prepare for my next time travelling,a real travel afford by myself,so that my mother just have no reason to object me.
Sometimes look at the wealthy family more or less I am jealous of them,but I also know that,at that time the real weathy person are the parents,not the children,and when it comes to the children's life,they should show it themselves.
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- Reply ada23
- i just think our mother prefer saving the money, she may not think of the meaning of travelling as high as yours，so earn your money and spend on whatever you like, maybe buy your mother a present is a good idea to let her spoil you
- Reply Lizzieliu
ada23: i just think our mother prefer saving the money, she may not think of the meaning of travelling as high as yours，so earn your money and spend on what ...
yes i know,and after express how important the travel as to me for hundreds of times and without return,i just give up.every time i go to a place for travelling,i always buy her something,but she receive and never use it as i know.and last time i woven a scarf for her,but she refuse it,she said she has already buy many much beautiful scarfs,so i think maybe buy her something can deal with nothing,only if i make effort myself can deal with my problem.
- Reply Lizzieliu
Tange: lost one chance to travel , don't be upset , you still have many times to fullfill it .
haha,yes,i will still look for chances.
- Reply ada23
- i think somehow a relation gap between you and your mother. Hug her from now on and let her accustomed your expression and at last tell her you love her, you are her young girl forever.
- Reply Yuefan
- I need to say here that you set up a great attitude for the issue u're confronted with. when we turn into an adult, the role who can take care of you is not any of your parents, it's you. Therefore, wolr hard, study hard, I believe we can give ourselves a better life. And I also think, if you desire to live your own life and do what you want without any restrictions, to be truly independent is the key.
- Reply Lizzieliu
- yes,after all it is just a little contradiction in the long time getting along with our parents,and i think it is none of business,because no matter what happened at the end the child will forgive her parents,i'm the same.
ada23: i think somehow a relation gap between you and your mother. Hug her from now on and let her accustomed your expression and at last tell her you love h ...
- Reply Lizzieliu
Yuefan: I need to say here that you set up a great attitude for the issue u're confronted with. when we turn into an adult, the role who can take care of you ...
yes,we are the only one who can deal with all the problem we meet.
- Reply teadrinking
- You are already doing good, and now I think you are more grownup.
When you are ready for going somewhere it is fine, and surely, take care!
- Reply 2amlittle
- I plan to travel to Korea after the spring festival with the fans of Lee Minho and it have two months left but it seems that my salary is not enough, a little upset,
now I am thinking of changing my plan and instead of going to Korea I may travel to the northeast of China. HAHA, Thank you for your article I am very happy to see this topic now I pursuade myself give up the idea of going to Korea.
- Reply Lizzieliu
teadrinking: You are already doing good, and now I think you are more grownup.
When you are ready for going somewhere it is fine, and surely, take care! thank you very much~
- Reply Lizzieliu
ada23: parents will surrender the results whatever they refusal but their child stick to do
yes,but sometime i won't stick in doing so,because i know that if i stick in doing so that means i force they to give me money,i think i would become a innocent person,so even though my father want to give me the money,i still refuse him.if they don't like i to use their money,i would like to use the money i earn myself.
- Reply Lizzieliu
2amlittle: I plan to travel to Korea after the spring festival with the fans of Lee Minho and it have two months left but it seems that my salary is not enough, ...
maybe you should change your plan,spring festival is a period that needs money very much,so i don't think that you can have enough money left after spring festival,perhaps you can change your plan to another time~
- Reply 2amlittle
Lizzieliu:
maybe you should change your plan,spring festival is a period that needs money very much,so i don't think that you can have enough money left a ... Yeah, I just think about the red packets I need to give to my parents....
