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Do you dare to speak out your love for someone?
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Last night I watched the latest episode of Let’s Talk (Qipashuo), which I have long been looking forward to. In this episode, one of the competitors of this season talked about her opinion on love, who is a writer of post-90s. To be frank, she’s not very pretty or lovely, but her view on love really impressed me. She claimed that once she is falling in love with someone, she would chase and manage to be in a relationship with this guy regardless of the gap between them. And she took her own story as an example that she’s in love with a handsome guy when she’s in college, although in the end they broke up, she said that she never regrets because at least she had the chance to date with her prince charming and she regarded this romance as a priceless treasure. And she also said that a lot of people are afraid of approaching those who they have feelings for due to inferiority, fear of losing, etc. But from her personal perspective, she thought that falling in love with someone who is much more excellent will help her grow up and become excellent as well. Even if later they parted, what she learned from the guy would help her meet a better person. Actually, what she said moved me very much because I was also one of those who only dare to love someone else secretly, but I believe in the future when I meet someone I like again, I will go and speak out my feeling bravely because regret brings much more pain than rejection does.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Actually, for most people it requires a lot of courage to express intimate feelings to someone you like or love. It is hard to know what is on the mind of the other part. The pain and disappointment of rejection is too hard to accept.
On the other hand, we may regret missing out on a possible romantic relationship, so we should find out more and test the relationship before actually expressing love in words.
- Reply teadrinking
- Once you are ready, tell feeling of yours to the one you love or like. It does not mind whatever he reacts. You learnt something, and know how to handle well the feeling on someone you love.
Throughout the life, we might be easily lost something, so we have to make up to own something as possible as we can. Such a kind of relation is surely to be deserved to have before aging too old to seek any more romance.
- Reply ada23
- different age people have diverse opinion of persuit of lover. The girl bravely go after her princess who also might appreciate this girl as well due to her frankness or love possibility that does not mean others will accept this girl who may consider more about personality or the girl style may not fill the bill. The heart touch needs more than appreciation of first sight, it needs long time to verify the result the speak out just the openness to the relationship and if two mature enough considering more precondition, it could be easier to yield the love.
sunnyv: Actually, for most people it requires a lot of courage to express intimate feelings to someone you like or love. It is hard to know what is on the min ...
Acutally i am a girl, if i appreciate a man who is much excellent than me, i will be close to observe then get the right conclusion not only the the man i like or not, it is about comprehensive valuation of life, personality or prospect then show my charming, if he finds out, we may close forward, if he not interested, then i quit, it is a two-sided relationship.
Everyone has the right choose or not choose, that is called destiny.
- Reply teadrinking
- The feeling, crush or intimacy on the other one is a wonderful experience.
ada23: different age people have diverse opinion of persuit of lover. The girl bravely go after her princess who also might appreciate this girl as well due ...
By telling of the admiration is a positive manner to let him know. That does not mean he should accept or saying ok to seek any further relation.
That would be perfect if the two finally can get by each other as development of relation. Such a case, actually, according to my experience, right now, does not have a high possibility.
Usually, after confirming the relation, the beloved two will get closer to understand and discover more than they did before. In such a process of being together is more than the good feeling. The two are then judge and adapt to see if there is more space for them to step into.
If it works, proceed with it, and even finally get connected to vow being together in the rest of life by marriage.
If not, end of it. There could be some situations. Generally, it could be a nice memory worth of remembering. Or it could be a painful spot in mind because of being hurt a lot by sinking deeply too much. Once get out the swamp pond, got harts all around.
Anyway, you are getting more sane by dealing with such a feeling on the potential one you might like.
- Reply ada23
- learning with interest, words memory is boring, it is the platform for fun or practice, after writing down you true opinion you can judge how much you express precisely and the weak point of sentence.
teadrinking: The feeling, crush or intimacy on the other one is a wonderful experience.
By telling of the admiration is a positive manner to let him know. That do ...
- Reply sunnyv
- i agree. A true love relationship has to be able real love and compatibility. Fate and destiny plays a part too.
- Reply lovingfun
- Long time ago, I am very timid that I dare not say a word to others, not alone, chase the rights which I deserve.
But now, I dare to do lots of things. I fully agree on her, what you wanna get, just get it, on condition that don't hurt others, as well as yourself.
