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Does strict family education work?

Hot 4967 views. 2016-5-31 20:51 | education, family

          I have a male colleague,who always take his 6 years old daughter to our office to write her homework when he have to work overtime in night. He oversaw his daughter's homework tightly when he did his own work.He checked her homework frequently,and criticised her once he found any fault,even made physique punishment to her if he found it is a marvellous fault.
           I always see a helpless and innocent expression in the little girl's face,which gave me sad feeling when I looked it. I usually persuade him to control his temper when he acted angry eye or spoke loudly to his daughter. I said she is only a child,and it is typical for a child to make any fault in the homework.Moreover,it is important to leave a happy memory to the childhood of anyone. 
           Regardless of my persuasion,he said it is vital to form a good learning habit and leave a good fundamental learning to child. He added what he do currently will contribute his daughter's successive learning stage.
           In fact,I really object his view.I do not recognised any strict education to child,meanwhile I also never agree any spoiled way. We can find a effective,relaxed,and happy way to teach a child,instead of using the relentless means.

Post comment Comment (4 replies)

Reply teadrinking 2016-5-31 22:59
His teaching method is really not that good. A kid should be taken under the nice and proper guiding, parents are always the first teacher and mentor of their kids. Under such a circumstance, the little girl hardly gets the chance to study happily. she always has the nervous though about yelling and punishment from her father.
Reply sunnyv 2016-6-1 00:05
Strict learning discipline does not work in today's world. The best way to ensure that the child is learning well is to generate her interest to learn independently. The things children learn nowadays are quite different from our old days. The child's self esteem may be hurt if she is scolded constantly. Happy learning.
Reply Rosanna 2016-6-1 09:55
the young parents are no any exprience how to educate their kid properly, they have no any patient facing the naughty kid. that's why I sent my daughter to the boarding school.
Reply sweetolive 2016-6-1 14:27
I am at your side, the education way of girls’s Dad was improper, which will cause low self-esteem, the hurt feeling will always on her mind even when she’s becoming  an adult. How to develop the habit of enjoy studying is more important than simply having good marks. Anyway, this is the issue of whole society due to the high competition.

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