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In our life if we have the right person accompany with us, I mean it is not only your Mr. Right in your marriage life, maybe your workmate, your boss, your running with, the talkative partner, that would be great and happiness.
I believe everyone have the dream that what kind of workmates you like they are there around you, the boss you like he/she is there smiling to you. In my current life, I really want to have a friend who can read my blogs often and understand my life, the meanwhile he/she likes the sports either riding the bike or running on daily basis as me. If he is a good swimmer that would be great, because the people likes sports who are sunshine and like to smile, therefore we must be having lot topics to share. The right now the wechat is very popular and useful, when we are alone; we would like have a virtual friend on wechat to chat, one hand to release the pressure from the work or from the family, other hand we can learn something from others when we communicate.
There are many features in wechat to find the people either from nearby you location, or shaken your mobile, but we always find the long way before you get the right one, it is hard to know the right one at the first beginning, during the chat you may have to know basic status of work, positive attitude of the life, etc, if everything is fine, then you would like talk more about the hobby, surly avoid to tell about the personal issue, like age, marriage or not.
The right person how to interact from both? Not only you like him/her, but also who has the same feeling to find the right one you are. The sense feeling we have to catch in right time for the right person, if we talk too much to your right one, maybe they think you are not so modest, you will get unexpected feedbacks, but if we talk not too active, they may think you are not too warmth to answer, you are lost interests, however, it is hard to find the right one in our life.
The right person is on the way, are you ready?
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- Reply sunnyv
- Good that you have brought up this topic. The subject of companionship affects everyone. I wonder what is life without a fond companion beside you. That companion could be your married one, family member, friend, workmate, neighbor or whoever it is.
When we are happy or sad, we need someone to talk to. When we are successful, we we like to share and when we are sad, we need to be comforted. A trusted and reliable companion makes our life more complete.
Unfortunately, it is not easy to have a life long true companion. There would be changes or conflicts along the way. I, myself, have gone through the most bitter and lowest points in life and have also survived and reached the shores of success. The close friends I have today have gone through the most rigid friendship stress test. The ones with me today are those who have supported and accompanied me at difficult times and have witnessed my turbulent development. Some of them have also made good achievements, so there are lots of things we can talk about when we are together.
The most valuable friends are from childhood days to now. Fortunately, I still have close contact with a most of my childhood friends and they are so valuable to me as they have gone through the extreme highs and lows of life together with me. Nothing is more happy than getting together with those friends and share the good times. Gradually, some friends are getting married and moving elsewhere, so we would not be seeing each other so much, but those valuable memories would remain forever.
On the other hand, there are some friends who just don't want to maintain contacts or have nothing to talk to us. The reason could be that they have not achieved much so there is nothing to talk about. There are also some who want to avoid sensitive and embarrassing questions. That kind of thinking is destructive because sometimes an idea from someone who cares and experiences can solve a lot of problems and pain. Anyway, walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in a bright day.
Honestly, I do feel companionship and friendships are more important than wealth. I have a running business and sufficient money to take care of myself for future, but money has no soul. Without companionship, life would be dull and meaningless.
There is a saying; ''Having a fond companion means no regrets in life''.
- Reply teadrinking
- It is a nice thing that we can some who can share and talk. But it is not that easy. Mostly we just find no one else who are right for us to share and talk.
The WeChat and some other instant communication apps help us to connect each other more freely. We find it convenient to talk to them, but it is still hard to find such a person that we can talk.
What I think is that we just have to follow our heart and find the inner mind from the inner peace. Everyone is the person who can domain himself.
- Reply Rosanna
- I like the sentence:walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in a bright day.
sunnyv: Good that you have brought up this topic. The subject of companionship affects everyone. I wonder what is life without a fond companion beside you. Th ...
i do understand the childhood friend ship is valuable, nothing is more happy than getting together with them, but most of them is far away with you, i mean find the new friend around you is not easy right now, how to build up the relationship.
- Reply Rosanna
- a year ago I wanted to find the partner who can run with me in the morning in my area, just in case can push me out everyday, i sent some messages to friends list, finally I gave up, some of them the time was not match, some can go out, but not every morning,whatever the reasons, right now I go out running by myself.
teadrinking: It is a nice thing that we can some who can share and talk. But it is not that easy. Mostly we just find no one else who are right for us to share and ...
- Reply sunnyv
Rosanna: I like the sentence:walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in a bright day.
i do understand the childhood friend ship is valua ...
I like your personality and you are suitable to become good friends.
- Reply teadrinking
- Right, that is what I exactly do. I just choose to run alone. I do not feel bad, actually, just feel that good to relax and enjoy the running. Keeping running, it makes you a good figure and health.
Rosanna: a year ago I wanted to find the partner who can run with me in the morning in my area, just in case can push me out everyday, i sent some messages to ...
