This topic I wrote many times at the date coming of each year Apr 5th. My father has passed away more than 20 years, three of our kids does not miss any year of the date Tomb sweeping for my lovely father, they don’t let my mother go with us, because of she is easy too lost control and not good for her healthy, in fact to train her have the chance to prepare some paper money for the hell world of her husband.

Normally one month ago my brothers discussed with our when or which weekend we can go together for Tomb sweeping,  to check the calendar in advance, the weekend we are not in the downtown always, No matter where we were, at the early morning we must go out for the day, we would buy some foods or some fruits those are the favorite of my father, even at his period, some foods he could not bear to buy, put it in front of tomb with some fresh flowers, to be articles of tribute to give the presents right now, we may tell some news happened in my family to share with him together. This year I told him Ting Ting has a big boy named Yi Chen, and he has four months already. And my brother was lighting a cigarette and a bottle of white wine to tell him Meng Meng his son has married with a nice girl at the last Oct, just looking forward the next generation who surnamed is Xiao.

Twenty years tomb we bought, the time to renew the contact, so we went the office near there to check how to do it, the officer told us we may come again after May this year, the new police of the price will come soon, anyway we were going to burning the paper before we went home as usual. There is other new poster said, forbidden burning any paper for sacrifice, what’s the hell! Even a little disappointed, but we fully understood the way for the air pollution, we can forget any traditional ways or superstition in our heart for many years like stone. We were smelling the fresh flower to drive home happily.