I am getting blamed seriously by my father in law this morning, because of I was missing the chance go for Tomb sweeping with the family at the last weekend for my mother in law.

This is the third year of my mother in law was passed by, each year before or after of Tomb festival we will go with whole family, my father would like writing something in paper for speaking in front of tombstone to everyone, let us to know and educate us to remember our dear mom in the past how hard of her life. This year the same as plan we are going for the date at the last weekend, but unfortunately Tiger was the heart rate variability suddenly and called 120 ambulance to the hospital at last week, surely this news we would not let his father who is over 90 years old know even a little, obviously to be my first time to call 120 seriously I was corrupted I must be staying in the hospital to take care my Tiger for the dates. My daughter is a new mother and his son has been four months, surely this family appointment I did not tell her how important it was, to be feed the baby in two or three hours of the mother, we did not ask for her accompany.

As helping by my sister in law that the operation for Tiger will be had at Thursday this week, meaning after two days later. As everybody knows that Tiger is the most respect older. To be closed to the father’s home Tiger and I walked to see his father at this morning, we did not think we were getting blamed strongly by the father, he let us sit down and talk and talk, even from Chinese culture to the history of the festival, said we did not educate my kid how to respect others who was the elder. Whatever he said, I just listened and kept silently, in fact he did not know the truth; we just worry about his healthy if he knows the truth, However, after out of his home we see each other cannot help, but we have to accept his blames even for an hour.