My mom is 85 years old this year, She is more healthy than others as the same ages, her eyes are clear after the operation, not deaf and clear mind when she talks, but only her leg is not as good as before at recently, one or two month ago her legs was painful a little, due to she lives in fourth floor without elevator, she likes to go outside every day, to chat with her friends in any corners at the community.

I have taken her to the hospital for her legs, the result was the normal situation for her ages, no any good settlement, reduce outdoor activities. We have discussed with her to exchange the room to the first floor in the building, but she prefers to live the old room which has still the taste of my bad at more than ten years before. Anyway leave it as this, everything as long as she is happy. So right now she has to grab rail just down stair once in a day.  

I suggested buying a wheelchair for her, but she refused my idea and told me the reason was it is for the disable person, I was health enough I can help myself she said, I know she was afraid to lose her face in front of others. Before October long holiday I bought the one from the internet without her permission, we took her to Dong Dao He where my brother building during the holiday. We know the wheelchair was useful when we took her to the seaside or the park. When I took out the chair from my car, let her sitting it, to say there are nobody to know who you are, so please try it, she was careful to have a look and asking safe or not, I said surely it is stable and safe, after she feels so fast and conformable; she is keeping silently and accepted.

Accept the new thing needs to change of mentality and the time.