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What Role Should A Friend Be?

Hot 4684 views. 2016-10-27 18:05 | friends, morning, school, senior

Yesterday morning, one of my good friends in senior high school told me that she was not in the mood. She said that her boyfriend is so busy that he even can be called as a workaholic. Besides, as they are in a long distance relationship, they can hardly talk for one word after a whole day. Then she came to ask me whether I chat with my boyfriend every day. I respond yes without the second thought.Later, I retold it to my boyfriend and questioned him what should I say to comfort her. He instantly said that I should not tell her that we contact each other every day, oppositely, I should describe a much more miserable situation of my relationship with him. As he thought friend is a role to make the other one be happy and get out of trouble. I was very shocked because I originally thought that what I should do is to help her improve their relationship rather to tell a lie to make her be happy and cover up the truth that there does exist a problem. So this makes me get into a thought that what role should a friend be.

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Reply seraphic 2016-10-27 18:45
i heard a saying that a friend in need is a friend indeed. i firmly believe that a friend should take care of each other, not just think of themselves.
Reply warmjaney 2016-10-28 15:34
It's hard to say if it's good or not, wish your friend will understand the relationship well between her and her boyfriend,
Reply Ccamellia 2016-10-28 19:45
seraphic: i heard a saying that a friend in need is a friend indeed. i firmly believe that a friend should take care of each other, not just think of themselves ...
Yeah, that's a part of a friend's role. But my problem is that whether a friend should just make each other be happy by all means or help each other in their life.
Reply Ccamellia 2016-10-28 19:54
warmjaney: It's hard to say if it's good or not, wish your friend will understand the relationship well between her and her boyfriend,
Thank you for your kindness. Whatever I do the very point of their relationship is the two of them. Also wish my dear friend have a dreamed love.
Reply Hui.Zhang 2016-10-29 12:07
I don't think you tell a lie to your friend. I think friends shoud be honest to each other. Maybe you can tell her that she should understand her BF, because most of time we do something not of our own free will.
Reply Ccamellia 2016-10-29 14:36
Hui.Zhang: I don't think you tell a lie to your friend. I think friends shoud be honest to each other. Maybe you can tell her that she should understand her BF,  ...
Thank u for ur suggestion.   I also think that we should not just make the other be happy without the reality.
Reply Derwent 2016-10-29 15:01
Actually I agree with you though I'm a boy.
Reply Ccamellia 2016-10-29 15:17
Derwent: Actually I agree with you though I'm a boy.
A sentence in Downton Abby said:what if a man care one forth of the sentiment of woman's.

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