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something about helicopter parents

Hot 5579 views. 2017-10-20 15:50

  Nowadays, with the deep research on children's education, a new concept called helicopter parents enters our field. So, most of us have a question: what's that?

   Helicopter parents mean the parents act like a helicopter, hovering over their children incessantly. This kind of parents has a particular characteristic that they have too many expectations of their children and they hope their children can live up to their expectations, no matter how tired and dedicate they are.

   We can consider that why the helicopter parents exist. Above all, modern children's dependence is the midwifery of this phenomenon. Since the children were born, their parents have made the plans for them, such as the grades in school, the kinds of couple, and the career. They spare no effort to pave the way for their children, who will become the one their parents desire them to be. Gradually, the children grasp nothing but the ability to study. That's why the parents are called helicopter. They are required to help their children to solve all the problems.

   As a result, how can we change this situation? The most effective way is to improve the children's ability of dealing with the whole problems. Don't ask for help casually or don't give up halfway. Try to consider every error and trial as a step to growth.

Post comment Comment (9 replies)

Reply Innsbruck 2017-10-20 17:26
WOW!What you concern is really heated and important. That is a necessary lesson our parents should learn.  By the way, I also think the young age is a little bit dependent and we need more chances to improve the ability of dealing with problems as you said.
Reply 凌铭解 2017-10-20 19:56
The phenomenon of helicopter parents is a serous problem in morden life. And all the parents should pay attention to this question,because,parent's education for thier child play an essential part in the gowth of child. Therefore, in my opinion, it is wise of you to put forward this issue.
Reply Slytherinmuggle 2017-10-21 19:42
It's such common phenomenon in our daily life. Helicoper parents are always trying to control everything of their children, which is harmful for kids' growth and dependence. This issue needs more  people' s attention to handle it.
Reply Poison 2017-10-21 21:31
Innsbruck: WOW!What you concern is really heated and important. That is a necessary lesson our parents should learn.  By the way, I also think the young age is a ...
You have an objective perspective which helps you know everything perfectly. As a result, helicoter parents should exist in a way.
Reply Poison 2017-10-21 21:33
凌铭解: The phenomenon of helicopter parents is a serous problem in morden life. And all the parents should pay attention to this question,because,parent's ed ...
You have a deep insight that you can realize the disadvantage of the helicopter parents. I am convinced that you will educate your children well and you are the best mother~
Reply Poison 2017-10-21 21:37
Slytherinmuggle: It's such common phenomenon in our daily life. Helicoper parents are always trying to control everything of their children, which is harmful for kids' ...
It is wise of you to put forward your opinion which is rational. Maybe every child feel tired of their helicopter parents, but they sometimes wants their help as well. So we should consider this issue carefully!
Reply Jeane 2017-10-21 21:57
As a matter of fact, I really dislike the helicopter parents, they behaved as if they controled everything of their children, children has become their belongings but not themselves. Children can mastery in something their parents can not. Helicopter parents ought to change their educational ways.
Reply Poison 2017-10-21 22:12
Jeane: As a matter of fact, I really dislike the helicopter parents, they behaved as if they controled everything of their children, children has become thei ...
In a way we should understand that they also want their children to have a better life, although their way is not suitable. But in my opinion I hope my children will be independent in the future.
Reply heartsun 2017-10-21 22:38
Your idea reflects the modern problem. More and more parents give their children so many concerns that their kids cannot deal with difficulties independently. Our society should change this situation.

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