It has become a normal phenomenon that if a person is much better than the people around her, she will be isolated. Just like the essay writes, " wood shows in the forest, the wind destroy it." The problem lies in that whether it is worthwhile for those preeminent people lost themselves to cater on their peers.

One thing that we may neglect is that gregariousness has become an universally accepted rule in society. To a great extent, being gregarious means that you are not permitted to do something, which may be regarded as odd or peculiar in your friends' eyes. Sadly, some excellent individuals have abandoned their inner belief and principles under the loneliness of oppression from those around them.

As a matter of fact, these outstanding people have done nothing wrong. Their isolation comes from the jealousy of other people and it is not their responsibility to bear the burden. They may have kept asking themselves in the nights: why I have to become similar with them and whether it is necessary for me to force myself to change into them.

It is very impressive that I once read a sentence: Tetris tells us, if you fit in those diamonds, you will disappear.

From my aspect, we are both human live in the same society that we have to get along with diverse people. Thus it is essential to fit in some groups, but not all groups. We have to acknowledge the existence of the multi-cultural world and existence of people who have a variety of thoughts that differs from us. There are some individuals similar with us in thoughts and experience. We can fit in these groups to find a real me instead of compelling ourselves to change.

You are just too excellent to be abandoned by your peers. Nevertheless, never feel depressed to the isolation and compromised to those people for you deserve better. So, never lost yourself.