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Don't show the bad temper

Hot 6696 views. 2017-11-16 21:39

Thanks to the sports meeting last week, I got the opportunity of coming back home. To mention it, just because of it, I've learned something.

 

It's such a strange thing that when I was home, I always felt very impatient with my family while I would miss them so hard in the college.

 

This is not the only feeling I have. To name the typical example: we are always angry easily with our family members. I ask myself for the reason, and I find that maybe out of responsibility is the main reason which leads to the phenomenon. To tell the truth, we really show bad temper to the nearest people while the strangers or the ordinary friends are the last one to see our bad temper. We rely on the love of our families, thus doing what we want to do without caring them which should definitely hurt them.

 

During this short holiday, I paid much attention to treating families. Although sometimes I will feel unwilling to speak or explain, I would listen and try not to lose temper. Now that I can go well along with others, why do I disappoint my beloved ones.

 

It seems to be difficult to control our temper, but only by doing so can we make both others and ourselves satisfied.

Post comment Comment (11 replies)

Reply 日轮月晷 2017-11-16 22:15
You know what, it's said that this is Chinese evil. We tend to show our gentle and generous and kind and patient to a strange instead of our close relatives even parents. I should reflect myself whether I am such a person.
Reply Millerai 2017-11-16 22:58
I can't agree with you more. Sometimes, we will complain some bad things to our close families or friends. Because we know that they can forgive us. Therefore, we should be more concerned about our familes.
Reply Lin-GAGA 2017-11-17 13:20
Yes, we always show bad temper to the nearest people. Because we know they will tolerate us and never leave us. They give their all patience to us, shouldn't we do our best for them?
Reply kuin 2017-11-17 18:12
yep,you're being mature as you find this situation.
when I was 12-13,I always feel irritable about my parents and often lose my temper just because of small thing.
everyone will experience this period and finally go through it.
not a few years later,your heart will blow away this anxiety and can keep peaceful mind to get along with you family members.
Reply Julyyyzy 2017-11-17 22:43
We always can't help showing the bad things on us to people who love us the most. It's a nomal phenomenon and it happened to me occacianally. Maybe it is showing the fact that we are not mature enough. I think our parents can understand us. Afterall, they were kids themselves once.
Reply 三更 2017-11-18 15:34
日轮月晷: You know what, it's said that this is Chinese evil. We tend to show our gentle and generous and kind and patient to a strange instead of our close rel ...
Yes. We tend to be an angle to others to avoid some unnecessary conflicts while we care little of our families. That's a shame.
Reply 三更 2017-11-18 15:38
Millerai: I can't agree with you more. Sometimes, we will complain some bad things to our close families or friends. Because we know that they can forgive us. T ...
Yes. And sometimes I think we just consume their love and forgiveness to achieve our own goals. That's selfish and that's what we did and are doing.
Reply 三更 2017-11-18 15:42
Lin-GAGA: Yes, we always show bad temper to the nearest people. Because we know they will tolerate us and never leave us. They give their all patience to us, sh ...
Yes yes.  Sometimes we can't control our temper and be rude to them but they still care us so much and worry about us. We should reflect on ourselves and learn to be calm.
Reply 三更 2017-11-18 15:46
kuin: yep,you're being mature as you find this situation.
when I was 12-13,I always feel irritable about my parents and often lose my temper just because of ...
That's true and just knowing such thing is not enough. We should face it and do the right thing we can to fix the rude and mean words and things we said and did.
Reply 三更 2017-11-18 15:50
Julyyyzy: We always can't help showing the bad things on us to people who love us the most. It's a nomal phenomenon and it happened to me occacianally. Maybe it ...
Yes, they will understand us, so should we ourselves. We sometimes like putting ourselves in the place where we are uneasy aand unhappy, which will lead to our bad temper. Maybe we should reflect on and don't think too much.
Reply 凌铭解 2017-11-18 15:57
It is typical of us to get angry with our family or someone close easily instead of strangers, because we think that those close to us will never leave us. although we show temper to them, therefore,we can't take good care of them. However,these people also get hurt if we show temper to them,so we should try to care more about them.

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