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How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent?

Hot 61816 views. 2018-5-13 11:33

  There is no denying that many parents do everything for their children. This behavior has serious consequences, leading to children not living independently and even becoming boomerang children. Therefore, helping children to be independent is a step-by-step problem. From my standpoint, parents should help children to be independent in three ways.
  At first, parents should give their children the right sense of independence. Let the children realize that everyone is an individual, and no one has an obligation to help them all the time. Furthermore, parents should allow their children to develop a habit of doing things of themselves. Secondly, parents should cultivate their children's practical ability. Parents always feel their children are still small, need to be spoiled, do not need to do much work, but if doing nothing at all, they lack the ability of hands-on practice, in the case of doing nothing, independence is difficult to form. Finally, parents should not overprotect their children, but let them face setbacks and guide them to make an independent judgment with the right attitude.
  In a nutshell, helping children learn to be independent is a gradual process. Parents should be patient and grow up with children in the right way.

Post comment Comment (11 replies)

Reply Cora28 2018-5-13 11:40
Students should learn to be independent because they will leave their parents one day. If parents don't help their children independent, they will be eliminated by the society.
Reply Ivy320 2018-5-13 12:43
Cora28: Students should learn to be independent because they will leave their parents one day. If parents don't help their children independent, they will be  ...
As you said, one day we will live on our own, and learning to be independent is the only way.
Reply 日轮月晷 2018-5-13 12:44
I can't agree with you anymore. In today's world, more and parents choose to send their children to live with their grandparents due to their busy work. However, these grandparents tend to spoil the children and result in the misbehavior of the naughty kids.
Reply Millerai 2018-5-13 12:52
I can’t agree with you more. Your suggestions are very useful for some parents to cultivate their own children. In fact, nowadays, more and more family only have one child, so parents will spoil their children very much. Therefore, it is necessary for parents to help children to be independent.
Reply Ivy320 2018-5-13 12:58
日轮月晷: I can't agree with you anymore. In today's world, more and parents choose to send their children to live with their grandparents due to their busy wor ...
As you said, it is not comprehensive that causes children to be unable to be independent, and the reason is not only the doting of the elders, but also the problems of the children themselves.
Reply Ivy320 2018-5-13 13:04
Millerai: I can’t agree with you more. Your suggestions are very useful for some parents to cultivate their own children. In fact, nowadays, more and more fami ...
Yes, traditional Chinese ideas are also influencing the way of how to educate children. Therefore, teaching children to be independent is necessary.
Reply 三更 2018-5-13 13:23
Independence is a forever topic, no matter what age we are, it seems that we tend to depend on parents sometime. What we should do is to make ourselves strong first and then learn do do things without the outer help.
Reply lavender_yue 2018-5-13 13:26
As we all know, independence is an essential lesson for children's growth. As parents, they should not pay too much attention, on the contrary, they should teach them how to be independent.
Reply Ivy320 2018-5-13 13:29
三更: Independence is a forever topic, no matter what age we are, it seems that we tend to depend on parents sometime. What we should do is to make ourselve ...
I agree with you. If we want to live independently, we need economic independence first.
Reply Ivy320 2018-5-13 13:32
lavender_yue: As we all know, independence is an essential lesson for children's growth. As parents, they should not pay too much attention, on the contrary, they s ...
Because parents are too protective of their children, let children have a dependency on them.
Reply Innsbruck 2018-5-13 13:47
Yes! I think parents should give kids room and chances to be independent and don't just be afraid that children will be hurt. In fact, kids have ability to recover with the help of parents.

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