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Self-control is an important skill and nature for many people and it can also be called possessiveness in psychology. People with less self-control are prone to do everything he wants to do, which will give rise to some adversities and hurt someone innocent. From my perspective, it is imperative for everyone to possess this human nature.
Someone who is drunk while driving a car sometimes not because he or she doesn't conform to traffic ordinance but because he or she cannot help drinking a little more wine, which incurs the tragedies. Also, some other people who have some diseases tend to be enticed to eat taboo foods, which worsens their conditions. On account of many reasons, self-control has become a lost skill among people whereas some people still retain it very well. How does this phenomenon come into being?
To begin with, modern people are lazier than before due to the development of technology. They would rather retard the task to the next moment or tomorrow for they are not conscious of the significance of some assignments in evidence and put them aside. Moreover, few people prefer to superintend one's tasks, which could waste their time for most people. For those people who master in self-control, the self-control is a habit for them to retain. Furthermore, people with less self-control can turn to others who are adept at self-control, which can help them cultivate the self-control into a habit in their daily life.
If one really wants to manage something, he or she will make efforts to do it. Thus, it is advisable for people with less self-control to cultivate self-control into a habit as well as they are likely to achieve many goals with the help of this good habit.
Post comment Comment (14 replies)
- Reply Ivy320
- Self-control is one of the most important factors in people's success. It enables people to plan their life correctly.
- Reply 09刘晶
- Although self-control is the key to success，it is hard for us to control ourselves.All we can do is to control ourselves and not let ourselves down.
- Reply Yeri233
- Yes. Self control is a very important skill but also a very missing skill. For example, I often play games when I do my homework. Sometimes I get frustrated with this but I can't help it. I hope I can improve my self-control ability.
- Reply Forgeting
- Now more and more people can not control themselves. They are easily affected by some things. Only by controlling themselves can they have a better life.
- Reply koofun
- Yeap, we all know the importance and necessity of self-control, but quite a few people lack the ability. Nowadays, we can easily be captivated by many lures around us, self-control becomes valued. To put another way, people who own the ability can succeed more rapidly and easily.
- Reply Jeane
- oh, it's U. I haven't reflected immediately. As U say, people who possess this ability can reach their goals and meet their needs more easily. However, there is another thing should be focus on is the degree of painstaking.
koofun: Yeap, we all know the importance and necessity of self-control, but quite a few people lack the ability. Nowadays, we can easily be captivated by many ...
- Reply Jeane
- Yeah, people should control themselves and have deeper and wider horizen, which could foster their progress of success.
Forgeting: Now more and more people can not control themselves. They are easily affected by some things. Only by controlling themselves can they have a better li ...
- Reply koofun
- Yes, it's me. Self-control and painstaking are right what we really need at our present stage. But they are hard to get. When we have armed with them, we are on the half way to success.
Jeane: oh, it's U. I haven't reflected immediately. As U say, people who possess this ability can reach their goals and meet their needs more easily. However ...
- Reply Jeane
- U would be lured to do other things when doing an important event is usuall occurring on our life. We need control ourselves and we can live better life.
Yeri233: Yes. Self control is a very important skill but also a very missing skill. For example, I often play games when I do my homework. Sometimes I get frus ...
- Reply Jeane
- People tend to loss balance between the important thing and the attractive thing. We had better to control ourselves to do everything better.
09刘晶: Although self-control is the key to success，it is hard for us to control ourselves.All we can do is to control ourselves and not let ourselves down.
- Reply Dorachenhua
- Dante once said, "measuring the strength of a person depends on his self-control." This shows the importance of self-control to us. In my opinion, self-control is not inherent, but gradually cultivated and exercised in social practice.
- Reply Jeane
- Confident and humourous as U, and I believe U can succeed. From my perspective, although they are hard to attain, we can get them through our painstaking process. What we should do is to persist across our study and never give up.
koofun: Yes, it's me. Self-control and painstaking are right what we really need at our present stage. But they are hard to get. When we have armed with them, ...
- Reply Jeane
- Yes,I agree with U. It also means self-control can be attain through different approachs.
Dorachenhua: Dante once said, "measuring the strength of a person depends on his self-control." This shows the importance of self-control to us. In my op ...
