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We Need to Be Praised

Hot 5589 views. 2017-12-1 20:33

  A few days ago, a boy said to his senior," if you often praise me, I will be more motivated to do things." I just felt that boy was very cute at that time. When I back to my dorm, I suddenly feel it is necessary for us to praise others or be praised.

  On the one hand, it is an attitude. It means we appreciate others or are fond of something. However, if we never express our opinions, maybe we don't like them. Some people will make blind and disorderly conjectures. They might think," I think I have done a good job. But they didn't say anything. Maybe they forget to say something. Maybe they dislike these things. What do they think of? What should I do?" So, we should tell the people if we are satisfied for something.

  On the other hand, it is positive for us. It can bring us confidence and comfort. When we are children, we try our best to do many things to gain applause. For example, when the teacher introduces a question, many children will put their hands to answer the question. If a kid can answers it correctly and gets teacher's praise, all kids will surround him or her. Unfortunately, we have lost courage because we are afraid of failure. At the same time, in order to arouse the people's enthusiasm, the incentive mechanism has been introduced. It also is praise.

  In short, praise is important. We need to strengthen confidence and find advantages by praise.

Post comment Comment (10 replies)

Reply IMNONARCISSUS 2017-12-1 21:37
An ideal world  for us, even a little naive . In fact, the real world needs a man with a strong heart.
Reply heartsun 2017-12-1 21:51
I agree with your idea. Everything is equal. Whether we express our praise to others or we are praised by others, we all can become happy. So,  it is necessary for us to praise others.
Reply Yeri233 2017-12-1 21:57
I still remember in high school after my geography teacher praised me, I spent much more time on geography lesson, because I didn't want to let her down. And I think everyone like the feeling of being praised.
Reply Leon-Peace 2017-12-1 22:14
There is no denying that everyone have a duty to compliment others. A duty, of course, that is what I call, pushes everyone to embrace appreciation or give some compliments. It appreciation that is vital  for everyone.
Reply liu.jiu 2017-12-2 09:08
The praise, a magic potion that will make a great difference if it is expressed properly. While I think that the compliment isn't as same as praise, they differ in essence.
Reply Lorca 2017-12-2 10:34
IMNONARCISSUS: An ideal world  for us, even a little naive . In fact, the real world needs a man with a strong heart.
Yeah, you are right. But it's not easy to be a man with strong heart. If a man is strong enough, he must experience many things.
Reply Lorca 2017-12-2 10:39
heartsun: I agree with your idea. Everything is equal. Whether we express our praise to others or we are praised by others, we all can become happy. So,  it is  ...
Praise is a social interaction. When we praise others, we express our opinion. When we get praise, we will have a good time.
Reply Lorca 2017-12-2 10:44
Yeri233: I still remember in high school after my geography teacher praised me, I spent much more time on geography lesson, because I didn't want to let her do ...
So do I. when I get praise, I'm motivated and empowered. I'm full of responsibility. I will try my best to do everything.
Reply Lorca 2017-12-2 10:49
Leon-Peace: There is no denying that everyone have a duty to compliment others. A duty, of course, that is what I call, pushes everyone to embrace appreciation or ...
I don't think it's a duty because everyone has own ideas, but it's necessary. It's a social lubricant.
Reply Lorca 2017-12-2 10:56
liu.jiu: The praise, a magic potion that will make a great difference if it is expressed properly. While I think that the compliment isn't as same as praise, t ...
Yes, we can't ignore some compliments just to improve the image of others. So, we also need to identify what the true praise is.

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