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Hot 5779 views. 2018-5-5 15:44

Recently, an uncle goes viral on the Internet because of his words that young man should be sentenced for not marrying, which has aroused heated discussion about the situation when young people are marrying later among netizens. Quite a few citizens hold the view that it is irresponsible not to marry at the right age while others retort that marriage is free and we should not interfere in other people's lives.

From my perspective, there is no problem with marrying late or even not marrying considering we should respect everyone's choice. For one thing, marriage should be bound to make our life more satisfied. If married life is not as good as being single, why should we get married? What's more, provided that marriage has become a task, there's no need to get married any more. For another, what we can't forget is that we live for ourselves and don't have to care too much about other people's ideas. If we choose to live without a partner, then just live happily as we wish!

To summarize, whether to get married or not is up to the individual and it is high time we realized that we have too much misunderstanding about the essence of marriage.

Post comment Comment (11 replies)

Reply 西北一枝花 2018-5-5 19:33
As far as I'm concerned,for marriage,the most important thing is not the time but the philosophy of marriage.And I'd like to recommend a TV drama to you —— Ramance of Our Parents.It is an excellent marriage model to young people.
Reply 西北一枝花 2018-5-5 19:34
  
Reply Vivian_Lee666 2018-5-6 11:37
In my viewpoint, marriage is not so important unless considering the next generation. As a vulnerable group of women, they should not be subject to others' opinion. Just follow your heart, live your own life.
Reply Fanning 2018-5-6 13:23
I agree with your viewpoint. Nobody has the privilege to judge other people's lives. Marriage should be based on love, mutual love, not other material items. It also takes courage to respect others.
Reply Yeri233 2018-5-6 13:41
I think marriage is a matter of two people! This has nothing to do with others! A lot of people get married on impulse, and then divorce because of passionless.And the divorce rate is not high enough?
Reply Koooas 2018-5-6 13:49
西北一枝花: As far as I'm concerned,for marriage,the most important thing is not the time but the philosophy of marriage.And I'd like to recommend a TV drama to ...
Yes, we should not use time to measure a marriage. The truly beautiful marriage that really belongs to you is worth the wait.
Reply Koooas 2018-5-6 13:50
Vivian_Lee666: In my viewpoint, marriage is not so important unless considering the next generation. As a vulnerable group of women, they should not be subject to ot ...
You're right, we can't be misled by the public's misconceptions. As women, we have the right to choose our own marriage and we also have the right to choose not to marry.
Reply Koooas 2018-5-6 13:52
Fanning: I agree with your viewpoint. Nobody has the privilege to judge other people's lives. Marriage should be based on love, mutual love, not other material ...
Yes, I've always wondered if we've also looked at our own lives while we're commenting on the lives of others. If we can't do that, then respect other people's choices.
Reply Koooas 2018-5-6 13:54
Yeri233: I think marriage is a matter of two people! This has nothing to do with others! A lot of people get married on impulse, and then divorce because of pa ...
Don't marry for the sake of marriage!That's quite important! I still say that provided that marriage has become a task, there's no need to marry any more!
Reply koofun 2018-5-6 14:48
The phenomenon that a number of people marry later can be intelligible. Not like our previous generations, we have to receive higher level education, accommodating to the competitive society. Therefore, those who want to marry also have later marriages. In the meantime, a part of people don't want to marry, which is a nontraditional choice in China. They are just like the two sides of a river. It is up to every individual.
Reply Koooas 2018-5-10 18:33
koofun: The phenomenon that a number of people marry later can be intelligible. Not like our previous generations, we have to receive higher level education,  ...
Yes, the society is different now. People's attitudes are changing, too. We don't have to measure others by our own standards. After all, everyone’s education background are different.

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