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Too much wine can easily lead to serious trouble

Hot 11367 views. 2018-5-29 11:59 |Individual Classification:My life

      Have you ever heard of such kind of person who is very respectable when he is sober, but totally the opposite when he is drinking too much wine. I am that kind of person.
      I used to be a teacher, and I am good at making complex  things simple. Something may seems difficult to others, but when I use my way to explain to them, they can understand the key point easily. 
      "You are a fine, responsible and capable man.  I am glad that we can work together and be your friend." I am willing to help the others, so many of my new friends or colleagues would say something like this to me when they ask me out to have a dinner together or have some drink together after my doing them some favor.
      So this is who I am like when I am sober. But when I go out to have fun with my friends and drink too much, I would become someone who you hardly know.
     Last Sunday, after several days' hard work, we decided to drive to a city nearby to have some sea food on the beach. We invited a  lady to come with us, who was a friend of my colleagues but I never met before,just heard of her. The sea food was very delicious and the weather was very fine. With the sea wind blowing on our faces, we chatted,ate and drank in a very good mood. It was still early when we finished the dinner, so we decided to find a KTV to sing.
     When we were in one of the KTV boxes, we called many bottles of beer. Some of us began to play dice and some others sang. I am not bad at singing and I like singing. So I chose several songs which I was good at and started singing. But singing without drinking was really boring, so after two or three songs, I turned to play dice with the others.
     A while later, a lady came in. She is a friend of my colleague and she is local. She is good at drinking and also good at singing. So we sang together for several songs and drank a lot during this time. For the reason that there were two beautiful ladies sang,drank and played dice with us, and what's more important,I did drink a little too much. So I began to be not myself. I began to be over excited and talked too much. In fact, I might don't know what I was doing or what I was talking. Then there was a moment I pulled one of the ladies' hand and dragged her to my side and hugged her, which I didn't know at the time until two days later my colleague told me. I was totally unconscious at the moment. I felt so sorry and ashamed about this.
    I tried to say sorry to the lady to convey my apology,but my colleague said there was no need for me to do so. It was nothing big deal and his friend would understand that I was so drunk that I did that to her. She would not keep that in mind.
    This is just one very simple example that who I would be like when I drink too much. The consequence of this incident wasn't very horrible. But there were several times when the consequences were really very terrible. And I really don't want to talk about them anymore, it will just reopen my wounds and cause me regret again.
    I am really not good at controlling myself, especially when I am drinking. Is there anyone of you can have some ways to correct this bad behavior. I would appreciate that.

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Reply teadrinking 2018-5-29 19:59
I do not be like that if I were drunk. Usually, I am still clear in mind and do not talk and behave insanely. And I also meet some guys as you do when they got drunk. Then they are unconsciouns and knowing nothing what they are doing. This usually leaves bad impression on others because the crazy deeds committed let other guys think it is not a good chance to have dinner with them.

So I argue that the one with that kind of problem after too much drinking should be fine to dine with friends, especially on the occasion there are some ones we are not familiar with, as the ladies you mentioned.

Even though good friends know you are gonna be like that afer drinking, I think it is not a good choice to drink too much. You really have to make things simple. As you said, you used to be a teacher knowing how to deal with problems for students.

Now suggestions as follows,

Frist off, it is not good to drink too much. Second, in order to avoid such kind of an embarrassment, you must know that would be a disaster if you were fully drunk again. We can not be sure there would be another nice lady who would be fine if she was offensively violated. Third, if you really want to have fun, you have to assure that the guys you are with can totally know what might happen. The last things is you'd better not drink too much, only a little bit is just that fine.

The point of party and meeting with friends is to share happiness together. So we have to be all right with them. Otherwise, it is gonna be a bad story.

Good luck.
Reply Logan_Smith 2018-5-30 09:21
teadrinking: I do not be like that if I were drunk. Usually, I am still clear in mind and do not talk and behave insanely. And I also meet some guys as you do when ...
Thank  you for your time reading what I had written and also for your kind advice.  You are right, the best way to solve my problem is to drink as seldom as possible. If I have to drink, I have to set a toplimit of how much I am allowed to drink. If I can keep that in mind all the time, I guess I can make everything fine. Thank you again for your advice.

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