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2101 views. 2010-1-7 19:48

I don't like the phenomenon of colleagues' relationship in our work team. Actually, we should get along well with each other. After all, we stay together most time the whole day. However, the truth seems not everybody take relations seriously. In my opinion, if you were helped by strangers, you should be appreciated in your heart, much less we're colleagues. She always asks me for help when she's in trouble. I have not even imagined to help her to find ways to solve problems all the times.
Of course, she's polite to me during that moment. But when I need her assistance, I don't know where she's. She seems so reluctant and complains a lot. I'm so angry for this.
Since I worked in Dongguan, I realized warmth to us is so hard to find outside. People are so independent that nobody wants to care about others, no matter who they are.
 

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Reply Samaritan 2010-1-7 20:06
selfish people are not rare to find.
Reply sunnyv 2010-1-7 20:24
Personally, I will never forget it if somebody does me a favour. I have the wish that one day I can return the favour. Once, someone stole my wallet and cellphone near the railway station, I had no money to take a bus home. I was so shy to ask for help. Finally, I had to tell a lady using hand sign language and broken chinese. I asked her to lend my 2 Rmb for the bus. She smiled and gave me 10. I felt so bad. I wish one day I can meet that lady again to return the money, even if I can't meet her again, I wish her the best fortune and her money multiply million times. In work I have met the best and worst people, some are more than willing to help, while some tend to find flimsy excuses to refuse to help. They feel that there is no benefit in helping others. Sigh! Why people are so cold? Why can't they help others in times of need?
Reply charry 2010-1-7 20:26
Today's society means: you do more things, you make more mistakes, you do nothing, you make no mistake. more mistakes, more criticisms. That's why people have been selfish.
Reply lucia_cici 2010-1-7 20:40
sunnyv: Personally, I will never forget it if somebody does me a favour. I have the wish that one day I can return the favour. Once, someone stole my wallet a
yeh, why people are so cold? In fact, many people are actual selfish. Of course there're still most kind men in the society. ..
Reply lucia_cici 2010-1-7 20:41
charry: Today's society means: you do more thing, you make more mistakes, you, you do nothing, you make no mistake. more mistakes, more criticisms. That's why
quite agree with you
Reply lucia_cici 2010-1-7 20:41
Samaritan: selfish people are not rare to find.
yes, just exist around us. ..
Reply sunnyv 2010-1-7 20:45
charry: Today's society means: you do more thing, you make more mistakes, you, you do nothing, you make no mistake. more mistakes, more criticisms. That's why
Hahaha, Really cute comments , even I did not know how to write that. Yes, that is how people think, "you do more thing, you make more mistakes, you, you do nothing, you make no mistake. more mistakes, more criticisms. That's why people have been selfish."
Reply charry 2010-1-7 21:03
sunnyv: Hahaha, Really cute comments , even I did not know how to write that. Yes, that is how people think, "you do more thing, you make more mistakes,
actually I don't like attitude like that
Reply v87zhou 2010-1-7 21:29
The colleague relationship is thorough different from the school campus relationship. I still a college student that I feel the campus relationship is pure. But when we step into the society, we will encounter a lot of counterfeit relationships.These will give us unexpected fright. The society is full of use and be used. We should not be anxiety. On the contrary we should abandon these burdens. It's no useful if we still complain about these. The outcome is that we will be eliminated.
Reply lucia_cici 2010-1-7 21:45
v87zhou: The colleague relationship is thorough different from the school campus relationship. I still a college student that I feel the campus relationship is
Great! Your attitude is quite good. yes, we should strenghthen ourself to apply for this society. Regarding as complain , i think it's just a way to let off our mood sometimes. .....
Reply v87zhou 2010-1-7 22:03
lucia_cici: Great! Your attitude is quite good. yes, we should strenghthen ourself to apply for this society. Regarding as complain , i think it's just a way to l
Yes I agree. So just lift you head and face the reality.
Reply lucia_cici 2010-1-7 22:17
v87zhou: Yes I agree. So just lift you head and face the reality.
I will . thanks for your suggestion .
Reply warmjaney 2010-1-8 09:12
v87zhou: The colleague relationship is thorough different from the school campus relationship. I still a college student that I feel the campus relationship is
absolutly
Reply Una1997 2010-1-8 10:47
I have experencet two totally opposite office atmosphere in two companies, one is my last worked company, and the other is the one that I am working for. In the last company, every colleague were friendly and obliging. We helped each other, but don't consider return. Maybe it's odd in today's society, but it's true.

On the contrary, when come up the company that i'm working for now, I can only remember one word,indifference. I had to solve any problems I met, because it was diffcult to ask others for help. I have felt strange and felt uncomfortable on this phenomenon, although I have worked here for six month. Aha, I even can't understand myself why I work here. Maybe, just want to experence different office phenomenon and find new challenge to me.
Reply Peter_zhang 2010-1-8 20:12
Sometimes , I realize that we should  be independent,but something will not be sovled by yourself,so we should do with the relationship with others well?.
Reply lover5200 2010-1-19 18:34
sometimes we should bring a good habit to help others if they reaaly need help no matter others said
Reply lucia_cici 2010-1-19 18:36
Peter_zhang: Sometimes , I realize that we should  be independent,but something will not be sovled by yourself,so we should do with the relationship with others we
yes, you're right, everyone should not be who we wish.....
Reply lucia_cici 2010-1-19 18:38
Una1997: I have experencet two totally opposite office atmosphere in two companies, one is my last worked company, and the other is the one that I am working f
similar experience as you. Maybe it's not a bad thing , to get along with more different people, we could know more in our life...
Reply Una1997 2010-1-20 09:54
lucia_cici: similar experience as you. Maybe it's not a bad thing , to get along with more different people, we could know more in our life...
Agree with you. I am not getting along with these people with this mind, and see it as an experience in my life.
Reply lucia_cici 2010-1-25 19:42
Una1997: Agree with you. I am not getting along with these people with this mind, and see it as an experience in my life.
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