excellent person find method,simple person find pretext;
only find method for success,never find excuse for loss.
various questions can met with you throughout your life which consist of the contents of your whole life about your job,living,emotion,etc.to face problem,someone choose evade,someone face up to it,so fail and success has be distinguished.
actually,all of the question can be soved,method and problem are twins,there are no problem can not be soved,only have person can not sove question.question is pretext for a loser evade responibility,so they don't be success forever,however,those excellent person don't find pretext but method,treat problem as chance and challenge,so they are winner.so if you have problem,make a clean breast of it,thinking hard,change ideals,to seek ways to work things out,you will find at last,although it's a trough question,it can be settled,method is more than question.
good luck !