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Petty trick(24-6-13)
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My husband said, our daughter will not become a good study student, as she always plays her petty trick. If she goes to school, she also will uses many of the excuses not to do her school assignment. Of course, that's just our anxious, she is still not a student. For a example, when I asked her to help me picking my phone to bedroom, she said, she was in busy, I asked what did she went to do, she just said still in busy, then I beged her to help me, she said she can't find it. In fact, the phone is just in her side. She was
really lying through his teeth. I don't know how to describe her activity, lazy or other's, maybe all for my fail education.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Compulsive lying by children os not always a serious problem, but it needs to be attended to.
When you catch your child in a lie, it’s natural to feel betrayed, hurt, angry and frustrated. But here’s the truth: lying is normal. It's wrong, but it's normal. In fact, we all do it to some degree. Consider how adults use lies in their daily lives: When we’re stopped for car speeding, we often minimize what we’ve done wrong, if not out–and–out lie about it. Why? We’re hoping to get out of something, even if we know better.
I believe that with kids, lying is a faulty problem–solving skill. It’s our job as parents to teach our children how to solve those problems in more constructive ways.
One method is to use other children who lie as examples. Tell them people can see when they are lying and tell them the consequences.
That is the picture of your child here? She don't look that cheeky. I would like to carry her in my arms. Children are so sweet and innocent.
- Reply 沧海一粟
- In order to stop your daughter from lying, I think you might want to try this: show her that you are not gullible, and she will not get away with lying to you or your husband. Each time you catch her lying, give her some kinds of punishment. For instance, you may take away her favorite toys, or she will not allowed to play games for few days .... She has learned to lie, but now she will learn that lying is wrong and no fun at all.
- Reply Sally_Fan
- So I know education is very importment, I will try my best to teach her well.
sunnyv: Compulsive lying by children os not always a serious problem, but it needs to be attended to.
When you catch your child in a lie, it’s natural to fe ...
