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She is easy to get along with, but she seems not easy with herself.
I am usded to her complains about the difficulties in work and her idea of quit. I used to persuade her to hold on untill her giving birth.Now, I will said: go quit if it is beyond your tolerance.But every time after she bursted into tears and made everyone in the company know her strong will to quit, she finally returned to her job.
In fact, her job is not that bad, the problem is her point of view, which often made her sad or angery.
That day, she cried again., no one in her team would leak out the cause. It seems too mysterious to dig it out. But as a friend, I must say something: Don't think you are the most miserable person in the world, many people are going though the similar thing or even worse.I should have cried every day! The next day I found it not a big deal! The cause is just a mail in wihch her departmental mananger mentioned everyone about their perfomance in the past year except her, which made her feel shamed. Why should she care so much? The manager must have just missed mentioning her, it did not mean he looked down on her.If she cared so much about his carelessness , why did not she wrote back kidding him what he was thinking about her?
There is another affair about the ceremonial dress.The company promised to afford our dresses in the annual party, leaving the amount uncertain .A colleage wrote a mail to all telling that there was a dress store clearing out at very low prices.During lunch, she made this angery comment: why is she showing off so much? let the manager know she is saving money for the company ? how can the company afford more with her mail? As a friend, I could not agree with her: why don't you think in another way? That colleage did not meant to show off, she is just kind enough to share her valued findings.If you can not take advange of it, is it necessary to get mad at it?
This is she, who is getting well with everyone, but easy to put herself in troubles. I'd like to say to her: take the rough with the smooth, go easy with yourself.
