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It's been a long time that i havn't been here to record my feelings and share my harvests. To be honest, i miss here very much. Frankly speaking, i miss friends here much more.
At first, i would like to share a good news. 2014, it is very important and meaningful for me. i was married with a guy. It's the most beautiful thing in the world for every girl who found the right person in the life. I am happy but at the same time, i am not adaptable for the marriage life cause i have to think more for our future life and i have to learn to get well on with a strange families. Fortunately, i have a good mother-in-law and father-in-law. Of course, sisters-in-law are good to me. However, cause we have different values and different life styles, we have some little disputes. From where i stand, it is not a big problem. i believe all these problems will be settled down by time. Time is miracle thing that can cure all damages and discomfort.
Another happy thing i want to share with you guys is that i will be a mother soon. Although the baby came so fast and so sudden, i believe he/she is the best gift that the god gave me. i will try my best to give my best love to him/her. Before i was pregnant, i never thought i would change my mind and focus my attention on the baby. Since i knew the little life exsited in my stomach, i have thought much and subconsciously i prefer the family to the work. Work is only one little part of my life, but family is the center of the life. Certainly, it doesn't means i will give up my job. After all, a woman who has no job will be a tragedy in the future. So i will pay more attention to my family than my work.
To some extent, i am contradictory. Actually work is important for me just because i wanna be a successful lady in the work. Now, it is quite difficult for me. It's really hard for me to balance the family and the work. Who can give me some advice?
Post comment Comment (12 replies)
- Reply ada23
- now you are a pregnant, so at this phase i think take care of yourself and baby is first priority of life. Job is part of life you can value yourself, but you should conscious that job can not give you love and care which only is the platform on. Think thoroughly what is the most important calling you have. After delivery a baby you can be back to official life again.
- Reply sunnyv
- Yes, you are right, time cures everything. Your married life was just like a piece of wood flowing in a fast running river and you don't know where you are going and what is going to happen next. Time has changed you or forced you to change. With this baby in you coming to this world soon, you would become a caring mother and just like any mother, you would be giving everything you have to this little angel. He/she would become the center of your life hereafter.
Life is not only about marriage or having babies. You seem to be an ambitious girl and that is good. You should be living a meaningful and productive life. When you have work, life is more interesting and you would have a sense of usefulness. There are many working mothers out there, so you don't have to worry too much. Things would sort itself out as it happens. Perhaps your mother in law can help care for the baby while you pursue your career. Anyway, these days both husband and wife need to have jobs to have a reasonably good living.
You don't have to think too much, now the baby is the priority. After birth, you can start thinking about your future. Everything is gonna be fine.
- Reply shirleyytt2010
- It is great to marry with such a good family and we are waiting for the good news for your baby. Do remember to share with us when the baby's born.
- Reply shaneW
- you are a luck girl, you find the right person to get married, at the same time you will have a beautiful baby,think about this All the troubles will disappear
- Reply rjjean
- It's grateful to see your reply. What you said comfort me a lot. Perhaps just because of pregnancy, i always think so much that i feel worried and sometimes a little blue. I will try my best to keep myself in a good mood and do what is good for my baby. Thanks my dear friend.
sunnyv: Yes, you are right, time cures everything. Your married life was just like a piece of wood flowing in a fast running river and you don't know where yo ...
- Reply rjjean
- yep, quite right. Sometimes i can't help thinking about the life after i deliver the baby. Every time, i think about it and i feel worried. I should keep calm and make a good preparation for delivering the baby. Right?
ada23: now you are a pregnant, so at this phase i think take care of yourself and baby is first priority of life. Job is part of life you can value yourself, ...
- Reply rjjean
- Of course. Hope to hear more about you too.
shirleyytt2010: It is great to marry with such a good family and we are waiting for the good news for your baby. Do remember to share with us when the baby's born.
- Reply rjjean
- Good mentality! Learn from you.
shaneW: you are a luck girl, you find the right person to get married, at the same time you will have a beautiful baby,think about this All the troubles will ...
I should be satisfied with what i have and precious what i own. 
- Reply sunnyv
rjjean: It's grateful to see your reply. What you said comfort me a lot. Perhaps just because of pregnancy, i always think so much that i feel worried and som ...
Good. Wish you the best.
