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Mind your own business

Hot 290 views. 2019-3-11 19:07

It definitely makes you crazy that you are surrounded with a group of people (usually they are your relatives) who are keeping inquiring, such as if you are seeing someone or not, if so, when you are going to get married. They also care about your occupation including how much you earn per month. They seem to be gossipers. They are also glad to keep questioning. This very scene happens in holidays, such as spring festival.

For all intends and purposes, you feel sick of being in that situation. Out of courtesy, you have no choice but to cater to them by answering carefully and prudently. You pray such kind of a conversation could end as quickly as possible. If you are impatient to put up with that talk, on the opposite, it is quite likely to be finished up by responding them with resentment from your eyes.

Unless you are permitted, you should never be involved in personal privacy. Otherwise your rude and impolite actions really let others think you are the person who are not supposed to be with. We are not in the old days. What we need to learn is to be understanding. Freedom is on the base of mutual respect, no one wants to be forced to do something that he or she is not willing to do. The pathetic thing is most guys do not realize it and even take it for granted.

Post comment Comment (4 replies)

Reply shirleyytt2010 2019-3-12 15:01
You are right, sometimes it is impolite to ask some private questions from others, it has nothing to do with you no matter how much others earn per month.
Reply teadrinking 2019-3-16 10:35
shirleyytt2010: You are right, sometimes it is impolite to ask some private questions from others, it has nothing to do with you no matter how much others earn per mo ...
Right. Haven't seen you for a very long time. How have you been?
Reply shirleyytt2010 2019-3-21 13:45
teadrinking: Right. Haven't seen you for a very long time. How have you been?
Thanks for asking.I am doing good.  For the past 6 months, I took maternity leave, take care of my second baby. and seldom surf the internet.  Now he is 6.5 months old.
Reply windie 2019-3-22 18:57
Yeah, people can be like that, especially given the fact that we are Chinese peple. Have you ever thought about surrendering to those pressures and ending those gossips by choosing the second or third or fourth best? If never, I have to say I admire your tough spirit. Not all the individuals are strong enough when facing those pressures from the whole cummunity or even the society or culture he has live in and been raised by. As time goes by, we find that we just change our minds mid-course and those things, we thought we would never ever accept when we were yound, will suddenly become natural. Time will tell us everything as well as change everything of us.

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