Through the whole life you may suffer disease, meet the bad situation of penniless, or end a marriage. It happens. What we see is something just exists. Sometimes we care too much and worry too much. In most cases, many things that we have no abilities to cope with. We can just deal with a very tiny part of messy stuff. Those what we hold in hands are best gifts we can cherish. Otherwise, we have no other ways to figure out what we can do.