Mencius once said one would survive in adversity and die of a soft life. And there is another saying, to spoil a child is to kill it. These contentions have proved true even today. Almost every couple try their best to bring up their only child without grudging any time and money. They satisfy all of the kid’s requirements as they can. The child is demanded to do nothing but study. After the child grows up, the parents still provide for his living and education, later pay the expenses of his marriage and the marital house, and finally help looking after his child. He may take it for granted that he can always get help from his parents. Once losing their support, he won’t  tackle any problems. It is his parents that have deprived him of the chances to train himself.