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Yesterday, my deskmate of college chatted with me on the internet. Instead of the imtimate, the feeling stange and distant ocuppied my mind. Three years have past after graduation, we both changed a lot.
Our life orbits is so different. She is a teacher of a primary school in a small surbur-town of Nanjing, and I works in a company in downtown of Nanjing. She always shows off her recent achievement, I cannot distinguish whether her boast is deliberately or not. She said she was qualified for the admission of Education MED of East China Normal University while her school will bear all the fee. Teachers and Civil servants enjoy a high pay treatment and social status in China, besides that, their career is so stable that they don't need to worry about out of job, they have strong superiority over us who work for the private enterprise.
I review my work experience and found no outstanding success at all. I always had good grade marks than her in college, but now, I cannot find my advantage.
When we left university, I have so many splendid dreams and did not want to be a teacher just repeating the same teaching content day after day. I hope to lead a colourful and enriched life in big city. But now I was just a ordinary clerk, without any bright. I have to save money to buy a house. Where is my future? I am deeply puzzled now.
I always regret my choice fo not being a teacher unconsiouly, but I have to face the reality.
Hold on, maybe life will be better and better!!!
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- Reply tang199091
- life is indeterminism, if you can grasp the opportunity when it arise. then you will make successed.
- Reply lolololo
- "Hold on, maybe life will be better and better!!!"
I like this sentence very much!I always comfort myself like this.Sometimes I admire somebody have a stable work or have high salary,however,I told myself, now everything is temporarily,My life will be better for the future.Sometimes,I think though someone have a lot of money,but they didn't happy as me.In my opinion,the God is equally,good live,good study,good love.That is all.
- Reply wennie.otis
Thanks for your encouragemnt, make great efforts, and we will receive rich reward at last!!
- Reply wennie.otis
- Yeah, you are right, the only thing we can do now is enrich ourselves and preprare for the coming opportunity~
- Reply jordanlhw
- FREEDOM AND DREAM MAY BE THE ANSWER,I JUST READ An essay ON SOUTHERN WEEKLY.Ultimately, the difference is that she is within the system,we are entirely different. Maybe she would have a comfort future and enjoy tempting welfare from the government, what about our dream?our career and self interest?
As you like,you can choose anyone but not the other.
- Reply wennie.otis
- Appreciate for your answer, freedom and dream, that's exactly we are looking for. Just persist until we succeed!
- Reply 异物
- "Hold on, maybe life will be better and better!!!"
It will if you try, but it won't if you just wait.
- Reply wennie.otis
- Nothing would be given to you for free, everything is received with certain expense. No pains, no gains. Thanks for your remind.
- Reply Jamesonhao
- Not just saying but action. Bringing your dreams come true might need a long and hard time. Exert yourself.
- Reply wennie.otis
- It needs a long time to relize all I want, it's ok, as I will enjoy every step in this long journey, thank you.
- Reply sunnyv
- "A life of compare is a life of despair" Comparing yourself with others is destructive. We often compare ourselves with people "better" than us and don't compare with people worse than us. Girls want to have beautiful eyes, perfect tall nose, rosy cheeks and perfect body shape. Men all want to be tall, handsome and powerful. How many people can have their wishes come true? Very few.
In fact, god is fair, we all have something which others don't have.
One thing I can tell you is teaching is a job with limited advancement opportunities. You could remain a teacher throughout your life and may regret later for not working competitively in a real world.
- Reply wennie.otis
- I am a sentimental girl, my mood always changed very quickly, which made me hate myself sometimes. When I feel frustrated later, I will recollect what you said to me here. Many thanks.
- Reply FangMiao
- I'm deeply impressed by your experience,maybe many graduates will face this situation.But I think everyone has his/her destiny.once you make a choice, you can never regret for it ,what you can do is working harder than others to realize your dreams.
- Reply wennie.otis
Yes, I will insist on what I'm looking for.
