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Hot 51096 views. 2015-10-21 14:56

Hate those who lost contact for years,

and suddenly leave a message ask job, wage,

say like we haven't met for long time, are you still inXX?...

why can't start slowly like asking how are you recently, share something interesting or joke as well...

why just always keep silent if no need and contact in need??!

Hate to talk with that kind of people, disgusting...!

Reply sunnyv 2015-10-21 16:35: Yeah!!! Why? Why friends are like that nowadays? Nothing else interest them or what? I understand they may want to compare their own earnings with others but at least ask indirectly. We are not obliged to answer. Apart from job and age, they would jump directly into relationships. Still single? Not married?

Then they would dig up something embarrassing from the past and laugh about it. Is that what they are contacting old friends for? Damn, worse is that after all these nonsense questions they would disappear for a long time and appear again for some other weird reasons. You are right - disgusting.

No matter I am doing better or worse than them, the result is still the same. They only want to compare and then disappear or hide away for a long time. Hey, people, friends are valuable and not to be used like that. What is the point of success without trusted friends?

Reply Candy.liu 2015-10-21 19:06: It's the old saying: Never go to the temple for nothing. But it's really not good.

Reply taho4012 2015-10-22 12:33: Because they were boring and looking through their contacts and happening to notice your name...

Reply teadrinking 2015-10-22 19:46: It is the Chinese way, or the Chinese characteristic to ask people how much they earn and their marriage, etc. I also do not like to answer them.

Every one has his own lifestyle, whatever they have, just ok. I feel good about being with people in the politeness as friends. Not just tell about more materialis they have.

Reply teadrinking 2015-10-22 19:46: It is the Chinese way, or the Chinese characteristic to ask people how much they earn and their marriage, etc. I also do not like to answer them.

Every one has his own lifestyle, whatever they have, just ok. I feel good about being with people in the politeness as friends. Not just tell about more materialis they have.

Reply DaiMelon 2015-10-28 10:24: sunnyv: Yeah!!! Why? Why friends are like that nowadays? Nothing else interest them or what? I understand they may want to compare their own earnings with oth ...
And always asking are you single? ok, in a relationship, then when will you get marriage? what? have no plan? why not get married as soon as possible like me? you are getting old.....sucks!!!

Reply DaiMelon 2015-10-28 10:27: caveman: are you sure he/she do not ask for money
ask money! hahahaha, you are right, sometimes have this kind of people, disappeared for a thousand years, never reply message, and suddenly ask, hey, can you borrow me some money, my account is.......just delete them directly!! sucks!!