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Should a man have His Own Private Fund in Marriage Life?
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In the pursuit of love, we incline to overlook the possible disagreement between spouses and exaggerate the tolerance. Under the circumstance, a man tends to share everything with his sweetheart or wife regardless fortune or fame, even to sacrifice his life in order to prove his loyalty to the love. After marriage, the right of financial control will fall into the hands of wife, and any matters concerning consuming must be agreed by wife. Maybe, in the first, they can agree each other, however, when they got used to boring marriage life and their love is no longer be enough passionate or powerful to conquer conflict and disparity, the quarrel occur and shake the foundation of family. How to get his desired things as before without the right of financial control for a husband? Private fund maybe a good option for such problem, where husband need to be a liar and tell his wife a less and fake income, and then save the rest into his own account. Do you think it a smart idea?
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- Reply lijuanandrea
- not exactly, that's another way of cheating, if one day ur wife know what u did behind him, things will become tough. man always use small skills to gain girls love, once their aim achieved, they will change their attitudes.
both of huaband and wife sacrifice to a family.
- Reply lijuanandrea
- wife sometimes sacrifice more than husband, both of u should know what the other half had done for a family.
- Reply sunnyv
- Accordingly, money in a marriage has to be carefully planned, shared and protected.
I would suggest the following;
* Before marriage, separate all money and all that money would forever belong to the man/girl who saved it.
* The marriage expenses should be paid by the man to follow old customs. Reasonable Money has to be given to the girl's family by the man.
* After marriage, all new income (expect money saved before marriage) must be deposited to this newly married couple and there should be a formula to control each the spending of each side.
* If anyone mention divorce "first", would lose money saved during the marriage.
This is only a rough idea, it has to be made detail and fair. The main idea is that nobody can get monetary advantage through a normal marriage.
Actually. the best advise is this;
Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave. Husbands would automatically know what to do in return. There is nothing better than a lifelong marriage. Happy marriage all you all.
- Reply indiangirl
- This is interesting, I think most of men in marriage will have their own secret, if it is no harm to the wife and family, then it is not a big deal...
- Reply Tange
- lijuanandrea: not exactly, that's another way of cheating, if one day ur wife know what u did behind him, things will become tough. man always use small skills to g
trusted couple should give small space for each other ; this rule also can be practise on the field of private fund ....the marriage can not be ruin by the quarrel of money
- Reply Tange
- sunnyv: Accordingly, money in a marriage has to be carefully planned, shared and protected.if this document will show to new couple ; it will let them disappoint on marriage ..... those items can promote the protection of the couple , but it seems to decline the trust between the husband and wife in the meantime .
I would suggest the following;
* Before marriage, separate all m
- Reply sunnyv
- Tange: if this document will show to new couple ; it will let them disappoint on marriage ..... those items can promote the protection of the couple , but iMay be you are right, but but why do we need a marriage certificate? That certificate is to ensure marriage resposibilities. Any girl dare to marry without a marriage certificate?
- Reply lijuanandrea
- Tange:if they trust each other enough, private money is unnecessary. they should put their money together, of spend their own money.trusted couple should give small space for each other ; this rule also can be practise on the field of private fund ....the marriage can not b
- Reply lijuanandrea
- Tange:anyway, i can afford myself, i don't need anyone's supporttrusted couple should give small space for each other ; this rule also can be practise on the field of private fund ....the marriage can not b
