Recently, I looked back my past two years’ life and summery the lessons I have learned. My life is very interesting and I know what is I want to do, and I always become brave after fail; what I want to get is just improve myself. I think this is important - to appreciate our wins, losses, new passions, insights, etc. If we never look back our life experiences, it means we give up the best opportunity of improve yourself.

At first, I was record my feeling by diary, but afterward, I realized that we are living in a information collect and share age, So I thought that sharing them here will extend their meaning and benefit beyond my own personal gain and that's a great thing.

Here are my feelings to share with you:  

Here are some of the more profound things I've learned recently:

1. Focus on the process and not the outcome

This opinion was perfect summed up by Srikumar Rao, he explained how we fail because we always focus our attention on the result rather than the process itself. When a child learns to walk, he never focuses on the result but solely on the process. Success is then an unthought but very probable outcome.  

2. Failure means change something and is not give up chase.

When you face difficult thing, no body is saying to you “this is where you stop because you failed”. If you really give up, that means you wrongly understanding the status of you meet. Failure tells me, this way is not match, try another one.

3. Rejection is your booster not a downer

When you meet reject in career interview, idea, project, invention or proposal, don’t waste time in sad, don’t sum up all the reasons in yourself. That slap in the face is a wake-up call for you to pick up your things and keep on moving. Things get rejected every second. So stop the fuss and move on!

4. Happiness is not the outcome, but a process.