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Sometimes I will think about where is my future,what can I do ? I know many of you have the same sense just like me. I am standing at a crossroad and hesitate to choose left or right. Of course, each direction means a different lifestyle but not worse than present. Work or continue to study,that's a big question. Be frankly, I'd like to study much more,cuz I feel my knowledge is not sufficent. However, someone told me you can take more excises after you step out of the compus.That's ture,I admitted. When you spend three years in learning in the compus, you also will lose three years income and working experiences. Futhermore, you will hit the marriage age three years later.But at that time,you just graduate and own nothing. That's a saying goes, no house,no car,no girl will marry you. That sounds like a tragedy. So I always wonder what if I choose the wrong way. This question is haunting on my head.
Post comment Comment (8 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- Like it or not, willing or unwilling, you still have to choose your future road. Since you are at the crossroads now without direction, just choose the best path you can and leave the rest to fate.
Find a suitable job. Live simple but happy. Save up money because you would always find good use for that money. Don't be afraid, everyone has to go through the cruel challenges of life.
No girl would marry you if you have no house? Who says? A girl would certainly be smart to marry you if your have a 'future' and confidence.
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- Try to get a girl friend first because no matter what you will you chose, to continue your study or go to work, to have your own family is the most important task for most people in their life.
- Reply Ausfrank
- To join into the workforce does not mean you will stop study. Actually the realistic study is at work, not in a school. I reckon that when you are young, you shouldn't worry too much what should be chosen. As a young man, you have energy and time to deal with the difficulties in your life. Who cares about life styles or marriages? they will come if the time comes. If not, they can wait.
- Reply sunnyv
- Good advice. Said what I wanted to say.
Ausfrank: To join into the workforce does not mean you will stop study. Actually the realistic study is at work, not in a school. I reckon that when you are you ...
- Reply maytan
- Actually, i'm also a graduate. so i understand you to some extend. but just as you above--mentioned "each direction means a different lifestyle but not worse than present", so what can we do is just keep fighting. come on.
- Reply DioScofield
- I advise you choose a suited job or work for yourself because you will find the society is a big campus when entering in it. Lots of things you will be learned. Master's degree is just a label. If you want study, not just in school.
- Reply yangqunlan
- no matter what you choose,do make sure you choose what you like.All roads lead to Rome .your success depends on how much effort you put rather than the road you pick.work hard and dream big, then you can be anyone you want to be. good luck
