Yesterday I was totally shocked by occassionally reading a QQ diary from one of my best colleage classmates, also one of my intimate female friends. A short passage displayed all her sadness and release from the agony. She stated she hadn't father any more and spent last couple of months with cry and sorrow. However, she never expressed her deep sadness and confessed this case to us friends. It was until she had cheered up that she shared with us through this short message.
In my view, she is a very pretty girl with good shape, standard height and nice dressing style. Among my female friends, she could be regarded as the most beautiful one. Through campus life spent with her, I witnessed her from a somehow rich family with good background, because all the stuff she owned were brand and seldom cared about the money. Frankly to say, she was a typical comsumerist. While she was good at dealing with friendship and humorous. Quite sweet. Honestly, I was very glad to have this companion. I remembered we usually hung out periodically such as barbecue, shopping or other activities together with othe intimate friends. At that time, she hardly stayed in the dorm but sometimes at home or with her boyfriend. However, we still enjoyed some wonderful moments with each other.
After graduation, we chose to stay in different cities. It was obvious that get-together became a really precious opportunity. Actually last year, she was ready to work in SZ by her family recommendation. Finally, for her boyfriend, she decided to give up such idea and now worked at Hunan Broadcasting Media. As to her, I had no worry toward her because she was an enjoyful person and paid attention to her life quality. Sometimes, we just chatted on QQ considering she was always busy or gave a call. During our conversation, we seldom mentioned family stuff, but work, personal life and recent status. As a matter of fact, we both had hidden incidents.
After getting the news, I didn't directly call her but asked the real situation from another friend in her city. She said it was true. I knew losing family was the most sorrowful thing. It was no need to ask too much but encourage her to stand up and recover ASAP. Her father died of acute disease about four months ago. I could deeply feel how she spent such four months. In may, I went to Shangsha to attend another friend's wedding ceremony, we met each other. She was happy as usual. In November, another friend visited me. We called her and it seemed nothing happened. In fact, some thing had already happened.
From her, I noticed the strong will and mind-set and also had deep consicious of our life. Life is really short and full of unexpection. In the whole process, we have to confront a lot whether frustrations or positive outcomes. I couldn't help sighing. Only happiness could console our heart. The simpler, the happier.
Uncle, on behalf of your daugther and her friends, sincrely say good bye to you.