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My " great " father
My father a typical gambler , he spent most part of his life's time to gamble. Since i could remember things i realise he seemed to be wallowing in gambling. Until now , he hasn't found a job for two decades since he had been fired by his first workplace.
I had haven't seen him for almost one year . My mom due to can't stand his vices , thet had divorced ten years ago, since then they no longer living together . To be honest , i don't wanna see him . He is tall but thin, very thin ,and he couldn't live without medicines , the slightly dark skins, always likes take a cigarette, all of these make him looks so poor ,so weakness. My family can't find any responsibility from him , all of his money resources were from my grandpa and grandma. How ironic.
Everytime i visit him , i always can't control my tears, although he is shameless , he doesn't do any responsibility for his family, as long as i watched his backshadow , a gradually older body, i wanna cry . He is my father all the way , even he doesn't do any father's job, i just say i will love you forever.
Post comment Comment (22 replies)
- Reply moli
- What a pity! Your father is living a boring life.
Please show consideration for your father.
- Reply 麦兜的期待
- moli: What a pity! Your father is living a boring life.Never had i blamed him, no matter how bad he is , i will always love him. Everytime i saw him, i was very sad , not because i hate him but i worried about his growing old.
Please show consideration for your father.
- Reply Linda1017424004
- You're very nice,your father have to be pround of you.
- Reply 麦兜的期待
- Linda1017424004: You're very nice,your father have to be pround of you.Maybe. Anyway , i knew he loves me .
- Reply Heidi_zysi
- After read your blog, I can almost imagine the scene. To be continued...
- Reply 麦兜的期待
- Heidi_zysi: After read your blog, I can almost imagine the scene. To be continued...It's so hard for me. Usually i really don't want to think bout him. He is too poor, think of him make me feel sad. So i'm not prepared to write more aout him.
- Reply Heidi_zysi
- 麦兜的期待: It's so hard for me. Usually i really don't want to think bout him. He is too poor, think of him make me feel sad. So i'm not prepared to write moreI just want to share the story about my father, in my childhood, my father used to catch fishes and sell up them at nighttime, every morning, my father killed the fish with kitchen knife, I enjoyed tasty fish soup, and I had a grand time at that time. But when the fish market had been in poor shape, he idled about and did no decent work, that was really hard times for my family. In those years, I was very disappointed at his conduct. Because my mother shouldered the huge burden of my family by herself. However, my mother never gave up to encourage him to stand up and even try to make a comeback. One day, my father found a good job and held out until now. Family’s support is a powerful force.
- Reply 麦兜的期待
- Heidi_zysi: I just want to share the story about my father, in my childhood, my father used to catch fishes and sell up them at nighttime, every morning, my fatheThanks . You can share your parents's story with me , i'm so happy. You're father is great, so as your mother.
- Reply Jessico
- Although ur father is lack of responsibility, he is still you father. No one could replace his status. Try to visit him when available. Never give up your prosperity by his influence.
- Reply 麦兜的期待
- Jessico: Although ur father is lack of responsibility, he is still you father. No one could replace his status. Try to visit him when available. Never give upThanks, this Spring festival i will visit him then reture my mom's home . Maybe i will stay several days live with him.
- Reply ting_00
- It's a sorrow, my grandpa spent most of his life time on gambling until he died. he spent all his salary and retirement pension, gambled all day and all night, borrow money from my grandma, my mother and all the relatives, all the people are sick of him. Although my mum take care of him, but can't change him. Once wallow in gambling, one leg is in grave. I doubt whether there are medicine can cure the addiction?
- Reply 麦兜的期待
- ting_00: It's a sorrow, my grandpa spent most of his life time on gambling until he died. he spent all his salary and retirement pension, gambled all day and aMy dad is really like your grandpa, even more, he never earn any money. I can't help him to quit those bad habits too.
- Reply bluephoebe
- i know how you felt about it. i haven't seen my father for about ten years--long story. i doubted that he could still recognize me if one day we ran into each other on the street. he certainly had no idea that his own grandchild is already four years old. there is nothing i could do about it, but you might still have choice. so, all in all, good luck, and make a right choice.
- Reply 麦兜的期待
- bluephoebe: i know how you felt about it. i haven't seen my father for about ten years--long story. i doubted that he could still recognize me if one day we ran iI thought this problem clearly, i can't change him ,then, when i finished study and found a job i will give him some money, but i'll never live with him.
- Reply love_is_circle
- I am a lucky girl because I have a good father. I get lots of love from him, who is clever, honest and good-tempered very much. I am very proud of him.
When I was a little girl, my father bought everything for me only if I wanted, such as stationery, dolls, necklace and so on. Now, what I eager to do is repay for his parenting, love and everything. Best wishes to him and my mom.
And I could imagine the shadow when he is old, sadness and bleak very much. You should help him.
- Reply 麦兜的期待
- love_is_circle: I am a lucky girl because I have a good father. I get lots of love from him, who is clever, honest and good-tempered very much. I am very proud of himI know he love me from his deep heart , but he choose his Irresponsible life . Then what can i do?
- Reply love_is_circle
- 麦兜的期待: I know he love me from his deep heart , but he choose his Irresponsible life . Then what can i do?Sorry for that, I have no idea as well because if I were you, I couldn't know what can I do.
I must be heart-broken.
