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made a unsupported decision

1479 views. 2011-11-18 08:59

Rencently, I made a big decision to quit my job and went to a fierece compition city. But this choice is not supported by my parents. On one hand ,the spring festival is coming, there maybe no vcant in the company, cause those white-color won't quit job until earn double salary at the end of year, on the other hand, they don't expect me flowing on. They persude me stay here in CQ and stick on. Life will be better,so do job. Everything will be better.
 
I was a serious girl, When the idea shinning in my brain, I'll put it into practice as soon as possible. Everyone can't change, even my parents. so, i'will quit my job and find a position in SH next month. Last night my father send a message to me ,and told me 'we don't expect you earning much money, just lead a happy life,that's ok. But if you can't concetrate on one thing, still changable, we'll never fogive you.' Yeah! Happyness is our destination for all the lifelong. But happy is a complex thing, and  tiny feeling deep in the heart, and also has many principles. I often ask myself, if i am happy, if i am satisfied with my present condition . The answer is 'no'.
Yesterday, i read a article named "we take everything for granted, forget to treasuring". We can't handle the emergence events, cause our life goes on smooth. We own all kinds of materials if we ask, but lack of spiritual foods. Looking around, all my friends are sadness and tired-looking. We loss ourselves.
 
Confidence is come from doing things successfully by my own instead of undering realatives' help. Now i am a assistant of sales-man, and i can arrange my work in order and efficient. I believe i can find a proper career immdiately. In fact, my parents don't worried about me. I am 25 years old. My life is depends on myself. I will pay coin for all the decision i make.
 

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Reply lijuanandrea 2011-11-18 09:42
that's fine to have a double salary at the end of the year, no way in my company, sometimes it's not about the money but the feeling that we are satisfied with ourselves. my parents just said the same thing with yours and I am planing to quite my job too.
Reply Haiena 2011-11-18 09:56
I commend you your courageous and positive attitude. Filial duty is one thing and your future career is another thing. There are millions of new job opportunites our there and you should try while you can. Nothing will change if you don't move. The result does is not important, what is important is that you have tried your best.
Reply woody1999 2011-11-18 11:26
Probably just because you didnot get married,there will be another thing if you have a new family.So do what you think.
Reply Shirley.Lin 2011-11-18 12:00
lijuanandrea: that's fine to have a double salary at the end of the year, no way in my company, sometimes it's not about the money but the feeling that we are satis
you are also want to quit your job?why?the same reason with me?
Reply Shirley.Lin 2011-11-18 12:03
Haiena: I commend you your courageous and positive attitude. Filial duty is one thing and your future career is another thing. There are millions of new job o
enen,yeah.i will try my best to realise my dream.and show my parents that i can handle all the events in my life.
Reply lijuanandrea 2011-11-18 12:21
Shirley.Lin:you are also want to quit your job?why?the same reason with me?
it's boring and Iwant to find a job that can fullfill my life and heart
Reply Shirley.Lin 2011-11-18 12:23
woody1999: Probably just because you didnot get married,there will be another thing if you have a new family.So do what you think.
may what you said is correct.but i think if i were a mother,i'll suggest my children to think carefully and support him/her.the only thing he should insure,is keep safety.
Reply Haiena 2011-11-18 12:47
woody1999: Probably just because you didnot get married,there will be another thing if you have a new family.So do what you think.
Does this have anything to do with marriage? Why not make some achievements before going on to marriage? Have you achieved financial and career success? Possibly. you are already married without securing yourself fianancially.
Reply moli 2011-11-18 13:05
Go for your goal since you have made this big decision.
Reply Shirley.Lin 2011-11-18 13:27
moli: Go for your goal since you have made this big decision.
thank you for your courage.i thinki'll.cause i am still yong.
Reply Peter_zhang 2011-11-18 13:42
I support u for the decision to quit your job, but I hope u do not ignore some details in the process. good luck.
Reply Shirley.Lin 2011-11-18 14:27
Peter_zhang: I support u for the decision to quit your job, but I hope u do not ignore some details in the process. good luck.
it is nice of you to tell me not ignore the coming details.thanks.
Reply Jessico 2011-11-18 15:44
Trust you own thoughts. Once you have full considered, head for it.
Reply Shirley.Lin 2011-11-18 16:14
Jessico: Trust you own thoughts. Once you have full considered, head for it.
i am so glad to see you in my space.i shall.and won't let them(my parents) down.
Reply Jamesonhao 2011-11-18 16:49
Couldn't agree more with your father. 'concentrate on what u are doing'. what is important the most, 'never give up the persuit of learning'(胡适). While you are in the prime of your life, devote yourself to something that you do like.
Reply snowflying 2011-11-18 20:27
dear Shirley,quiting your job surely is not a small thing, i can understand your parents. if you have thought well, and prepare enough for your new job , maybe  not a bad thing. anything all depends on your trying sometimes. wish good luck,dear girl.
Reply Shirley.Lin 2011-11-19 08:20
snowflying: dear Shirley,quiting your job surely is not a small thing, i can understand your parents. if you have thought well, and prepare enough for your new jo
hehe,thanks.i'm so appreciate for your support ing me.i'll fellow your suggestion.cause you are standing on a mother's position.
Reply Shirley.Lin 2011-11-19 08:28
Jamesonhao: Couldn't agree more with your father. 'concentrate on what u are doing'. what is important the most, 'never give up the persuit of learning'(胡适). Wh
yeah!that is why i disobey him.he often tells me not to be an ambitious girl,should be content with what i own.
Reply winner 2011-11-20 13:30
we take everything for granted,forget to treasuring.  
yeah ,in my view ,you should live a free life ,after all ,you are just a girl .A girl have not to live so hard .
Reply BouneXiao 2011-11-20 23:27
Don't wait for the perfect moment, take the moment and make it perfect. Good luck!!
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