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What are your fears? Everybody have something to worry which makes unhappiness in our heart.
My worries are not yet married, family worry because I am single, age going to be 30, low salary job, unhappy job, no money buy house, cannot learn new knowledge, no close friends, travel only in dreams not real travel, lonely.
What about you?
My worries are not yet married, family worry because I am single, age going to be 30, low salary job, unhappy job, no money buy house, cannot learn new knowledge, no close friends, travel only in dreams not real travel, lonely.
What about you?
Post comment Comment (2 replies)
- Reply sod5211314
- I am the same to you, I was borned in 1988,but I 'm still single until now. my parents worry about me and tell me to find a girl friends. so the situation that you faced is not so bad. we both face it.
- Reply teadrinking
- We all have some problems. And what you meet with those are almost the same on others. The only difference is that somebody just achieved some, for example, they get married or have already have their own house. But here is the also the problem, some of those who own the house still have to work hard to pay the for the rest money by installments. That is the reality, because most of us are just ordinary people, we are not billionaire. What I said is to let you know everyone has his or her problems.
Usually we just worry about ours, yet not realize some others are also racking their brains to find how to solve their tough issues which we just do not see. That is why we are working hard to struggle for life. Struggling means we are on the way to better our life.
I am still single too. Yes, that is the problem. Parents and friends sometimes ask me if I am seeing someone and when I am about to marry. But, marriage is not something simply like buying food or ordering a ticket, apart from some coincidence or happen to meet the right person who can be the future partner in the rest of our life, we also have to be patient.
Nowadays, it is quite more different than that what we had before. The fast pace of modern society makes people rush into work and life, sometimes, we even do not have the qualified time to meet and date. And also people are seemingly to be more realistic. That is why we often see news about people are talking of houses, cars, and how much money we saved in banks. As if we can not live or do not have the right to love and marry.
I admit I more or less have the same situation as you do. I used to worry about what my future is going to be like? Does the current situation last in a long time that I can not realize my dream? How to make true of my self sufficiency so that I can enjoy my life?
Tough, it is. But I do believe that I can realize it. Besides, the pursuit of materials, we also need to stay calm, and cultivate ourselves. In the rush of group people working around, we remain our goals and do it according to our dreams.
A dream could be small, such as owning a warm family with beloved, also could be huge, like, runing a business and make large sum of money which can be the guarantee that we do not need to worry that we are to starve even when we are not working any more.
Well, I can sense your feeling. Especially the anxiety arises on our mind when we see friends getting married and posting pictures of their kids online. Life goes like taking an unexpected journey which we never know what it is until we are there.
