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Weekend at home and think about future

Hot 5859 views. 2015-11-28 23:46

I talked to my friend yesterday. We found out most of us are worried or unhappy about 4 things.
Job, marriage/family, children and personal friends.

The first is work and job. Not happy about the job. Low salary and cannot see the future in the job.

Second is marriage and family. Those not yet married cannot find a suitable partner for marriage.
Those who are married argue because of child care, money, spending and save money.

Third is children and parents. Those married have children are busy for taking care of children.
No time to enjoy family life. Some live with parents after marriage have fierce argument with in-law parents.

Fourth are friends. Most personal friends and schoolmates moved to others province to work,
little contact. No friends to talk to or shoulder to cry on when in trouble or sad. Loneliness.

Everybody is affected by at least 1 or 2 of these troubles which make us very unhappy.

Are you affected? How do you handle it?

Talking about loneliness, How you spend weekends but every Saturday and Sunday, we can only go shopping, buy something to eat or buy clothes.
My friends don't accompany me because they are busy or just don't have interest to go out.  I stay at home, read some books, read blogs here, talk to some friends on phone and take a rest. It is better than going to all those crowded places. Which is better? Stay at home or go out. How do you spend your holidays?

Post comment Comment (15 replies)

Reply sunnyv 2015-11-29 14:27
What you said is true. Most people have these concerns. Fate works in mysterious ways. Sometimes, god don't give you the things you want for good reasons. For example, as a girl, having a senior high paid job could be a disaster for you when it comes to marriage. Most men find it hard to accept or accommodate a girl who has higher ability than him and earns more than him because that would diminish his status as a leader of the family and accordingly, you could remain single. So you have to decide which is more important, career or your matrimonial future?

People often say marriage is made in heaven and it is not for us to wish for. You can see people divorcing after months of marriage. Is it not better to waiting patiently rather than having a partner who would cause you endless misery and suffering? There are things in life which we have to leave to fate, so try your best to find your dreams but do not overdo it. What is destined to you in life would be yours eventually.

Our friend ''Teadrinking'' has written an impressive blog and I have responded accordingly. You would find your answers therein. Hope happy days would come to you soon. Wish you the best.
Reply lovingfun 2015-11-29 19:06
As for loneliness, I think we choose it, so we feel lonliness. If we really want to get out from it , we may find ways out.  There must be have something which can abstract our attentions on loneliness. Further, we should open our mind, try to accept new things, and make new friends, then we maybe happen. We should not hide in the corner of so-called comfort zone, which build by ourselves. We might well going out  to find more things to do.
Reply Haiena 2015-11-29 19:42
lovingfun: As for loneliness, I think we choose it, so we feel lonliness. If we really want to get out from it , we may find ways out.  There must be have someth ...
Hi, I try to make new friends but they don't have feedback because we don't have same interest. The friendship can't conuinue for long time. At the end I am left all alone.
Reply Haiena 2015-11-29 19:45
sunnyv: What you said is true. Most people have these concerns. Fate works in mysterious ways. Sometimes, god don't give you the things you want for good reas ...
Thanks for the helpful advice. I have read Teadrinking and your blog. I wish I have the confidence like you and others.
Reply teadrinking 2015-11-29 22:34
What are those concerns you worried are also the things work on almost everyone of us. We can not escape them. They are everywhere, we even find no place to avoid them.  

Life goes like a huge stage where plays so many episodes we have to go through.

On weekends, I go for jogging and doing something like reading and some others. Besides, I write some blogs here to share with friends here. By reading blogs written by friends here, I find many interesting stories and also know some of thoughts from them. I then feel it is good if I can offer some suggestions which might be helpful for them. Reading and writing are good ways for us to grow and think.

Hope you are well and arrange yourself as what you like.
Reply lovingfun 2015-11-30 19:27
Haiena: Hi, I try to make new friends but they don't have feedback because we don't have same interest. The friendship can't conuinue for long time. At the en ...
Friends are not only humans, we can make other thing as friends, such as diary, book, ect.
Just find a way make yourself relax. Trust me. If not, we are all friends here, if you feel lonely, if you don't mind, you can tell us, and we can help you, at least, we can comfort you.
Reply Tange 2015-12-1 19:18
you should find a guy to be your boyfriend ...  that will turns the holiday colorful
Reply Lywardlee 2015-12-1 20:49
The four things which you talk about are troubles to us. But you can share your happiness to someone else. Loneliness is a terrible emotion.
Reply Haiena 2015-12-1 21:26
lovingfun: Friends are not only humans, we can make other thing as friends, such as diary, book, ect.
Just find a way make yourself relax. Trust me. If not, we a ...
I feel better after reading what you said. Some words can make me forget loneliness. I will come here more because you guys are friendly.
Reply Haiena 2015-12-1 21:28
Tange: you should find a guy to be your boyfriend ...  that will turns the holiday colorful
Boyfriend make me more unhappy.
Reply Haiena 2015-12-1 21:28
Tange: you should find a guy to be your boyfriend ...  that will turns the holiday colorful
Boyfriend make me more unhappy.
Reply Haiena 2015-12-1 21:29
Lywardlee: The four things which you talk about are troubles to us. But you can share your happiness to someone else. Loneliness is a terrible emotion.
I am happy to see your words. I think you know what loneliness means.
Reply Haiena 2015-12-1 21:31
sunnyv: What you said is true. Most people have these concerns. Fate works in mysterious ways. Sometimes, god don't give you the things you want for good reas ...
Thank you very much for your comfortable words. I will remember everything you said.
Reply lovingfun 2015-12-1 21:38
Haiena: I feel better after reading what you said. Some words can make me forget loneliness. I will come here more because you guys are friendly.
You are welcome. Wish you feel better now.
Reply Lywardlee 2015-12-2 10:54
Haiena: I am happy to see your words. I think you know what loneliness means.
Yeah~ wish you happy~

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