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It is December. After a few weeks it will be another new year. Time is passing so fast but my life is empty. I have a job with good salary but no much work and the future is empty also. I have a boyfriend but his interest is electronic games and smoke too much. His salary is not enouough to support himself. I am not young anymore. I want to get married and have a family like my friends but he is not the kind of man I want. I don't know what to do about my future. My parents want me to get married but I can't find a suitable man. I quietly cry in my room at night. I think too much I cannot sleep. I have good education. I work hard but I am not happy because I can't see my future.
Post comment Comment (5 replies)
- Reply cestlavie
- If I may ask, would you pls tell me your age? i can say for sure, you're not old as me.
Wondering how many year you and your boyfriend be together？ if you don't have guts to make changes, you have to wait till your boy wants to marry, can you bear this? if yes, then you keep waiting.
If not, as you said, you're not your any more, why still waste your time on the wrong person like him? is it worthy of it? will you happy if you get marry with him ? will he changes himself for you?
- Reply Haiena
- I am about 1 year younger than you. Know my boyfriend about 4 years, not close, no talk much, no same interest. He want to marry but I don't want because he is not suit for me. My parents don't like him. I not waiting for him to marry me. I with him because I feel lonely. I prefer single than marry him. I cannot find anyone suitable for marry. Waiting and looking for my Mr. Right but don't any. I only want a man who real love me, good background, hard working. Give me secure feel. Poor ok if he work. Not need handsome, but must taller than me. I am not a good looking girl but men say I can be good wife. I not choose and not ask too much but still cannot find. I feel sad and lonely now.
- Reply sunnyv
- By tradition, men is supposed to earn enough money to build and support a family. Girls are supposed to get married and build a happy family. However, most men could not make enough money to properly support a family. In the same way, quite a lot of girls are unmarried for various reasons. So, both have their own inadequacy. In these modern days, marriage is not as important as before because a lot of girls are independent and can earn a living on their own. Since you do not have high demand and expectations, you would find your Mr.Right eventually. You are a nice girl and it should not be too difficult for you to get married. Have patience.
- Reply teadrinking
- It is not so important that the boyfriend of a girl earns less money compared to his girl. If he really loves her, they also can start a good family. While you find he is not that you want, so sorry to hear that. Though you are at the age of marriage, do not feel that bad.
There are also many girls who earn good salary, have a high social status. They are tough and strong, surely they also have their soft mind to people. But it is not the reason that they should marry a man they do not like or just marry him in rush.
Do not think that you are now in the mess. Girl. You are nice. You have pursuit of life. Let those go, you can start a new life. Happiness of marriage is the entire life whole thing we are supposed to face, so we can not just do it hurriedly.
