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I feel great stress after meet you,i don't know how to express this feeling,most of time i feel we are happy when we stay together or talking ,but you may don't know ,sometimes i just don't want to speak a word with you ,i don't know why i think like this ,i am afraid i will lost you or i just don't want to together with you, when we talk something about future such as marry and baby ,i feel great stress ,Great mental stress make me feel uncomfortable ,i can't do my job perfect .i have no confidence to our relationship,most of time ,i think a man are always selfishness,they will never love you so much as they said ,i am afraid love ,marriage....
today , i feel backache , it make me so sad ,i always think what should i do if i got a serious disease? Dear god ,please bless me ,i need health and relax.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Relax my friend, relax.... You are having anxiety and cannot set yourself free or release yourself. You also have a sense of insecurity. This is quite bothersome for you but it is quite normal too. You have described your state of mind quite well and we understand your thinking.
This person comes into your life and you don't know how to handle him. He shows you affection but you know his affection is doubtful. You can see from his attitude and words that his intentions are questionable and you don't want to fall into a trap of despair. On the other hand, you don't want to lose him so you are taking small steps carefully. These contradictions are confusing isn't it? Yes, but this is what we have to face and deal with in certain times of our life. To put it simply, you are serious but he is not. There is something about you which attracts him, otherwise, he would not be with you at all, but maybe those things are not enough for a real long term relationship. Accordingly, you would have to have to handle him with care.
They say women have the 6th sense and they know what is on the mind of a man by the things he say and do. I believe you have that too.
My observations are that this person is not serious about love and relationship and cannot be trusted on face value or his words. However, if you deal with him tactfully without offending him, there is a chance a worthwhile relationship could develop. There could be a heavy price to pay, so you have to be careful.
Unfortunately, I have to agree that men are often unfaithful and they could change and get tired of a relationship easily. That is how nature programmed men.
What you need to do now is to read his mind carefully. Give and take appropriately and see how the relationship goes.
Hope you have happy days ahead of you.
- Reply Basa
- Thank you ,sunnyv ,you know my feelings very well ,maybe i don't believe the man ,or maybe i don't believe love at all,sometimes i doubt whether there is love?
sunnyv: Relax my friend, relax.... You are having anxiety and cannot set yourself free or release yourself. You also have a sense of insecurity. This is quite ...
