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Hot 71635 views. 2015-10-23 17:46

Rencently, I browsed one microblog,it said that after watching<< Goodbye Mr. Loser>> and<< Lost In Hongkong>>,what we can learn was that the people whom you liked most was not suitble for you ,but the one who was always around  you, really? I am 24 , I haven't found someone that I really like.  There is a man ,he is 25 and we knew each other through qq running group which set up by him. This summer, our friends often ran together everyday after work. We encouraged each other and we hang out about once a week, he was more familiar than us in Urumqi. During those time, we almost visited all places we live. After we knew about 3 moths,one night after we finishing our tasks-running,he sent me to my home,and when I said “bye” to him, he kept me waiting for a while, then I walked to him,he said “I really like you and be my girlfriend." I was shocked, and just say something and told him,"let me think about it." That day was the day before Chinese Valentine‘s Day. On the Chinese Valentine’s Day‘s noon, he called me ,I  pretended not to see,and kept doing my work,this time I was nervous and prepaired to editor weixin to tell him"we'd better to be friends, and thanks for  his care during these time and we really had fun,shall we have chance to hang out together?" He applied to me "I just want to want to express my inner thought,as for the later,let it be,now are you free?go downstairs to pick up things, I wait for you in the coffee shop downstairs." I went there and he gave a box to me said it was done by himself. we chatted for a while and went back to our own companies. I opened the box, there was  a golden roses in it and some colorful paper around it. Later,we talked something on weixin, after work, we dicided to go to  a beautiful place which we have run before. we just talked like usual.until now,we are friends. I don' t know whether it is right or wrong. shoulld I keep being friends with him or stay away from him?               ps:about 7days before the Chinense Valentine's Day. he asked a day-off to his grandma's birthday, that noon,we had a lunch together, before he left, he gave me an envelope and asked me to open it after he left.At that time ,I asked him what was it ,he told me it was a love letter,I thought it ’s a joke. when I opened it , some colorful paper in it, I had no idea about this, I guessed it might indicate something, I surfed on internet,no answer. That night,he asked me did you know the meaning of that envelope? I said no,and then he told me ,next was what he said to me above mentioned.  LONG STORY......


     We are still friends now. I remembered at the end of 2015 years, he and me went skiing together, it was the 1st time for me , I have never been skiing before. yes, it was not the 1st time for him, so he has some experience about this . Before we reached our destination,we went to a restaurant cause we didn't have breakfast, he said "I don't konw why I so cheeky in front of you."Then we continued driving to our destination. When we arrived there, he did all the things  of going skiing for me and let me follow him. (PS:he took a cup of hot water,because last night we talked I said I was not very well.) All the words, we had a good time. After this , it closed to new year's day,on the last day of 2015, my company had a dinner together. I told him how I spent this day every year ----watched the concert  on  Hunan TV. I took a taxi to his company(he lived in his company) before 12:00. He bought RIO and some snacks, we watched the show and drank RIO together,later took some photos together, he sent some of them to his wechat. He said it was the last time to drink in 2016. Shows  ended, he sent me home, when I said goodbye to him and readied to go upstairs, he said "shall we hug?" I said ok, he said " I hope you will be happy in 2016" I said" you too". During those I thought we would be together and I missed him sometimes.Before my new year holiday, we (those 4 friends mentioned above, we ran together) had dinner together.we didn't see each other after that day until now.During Chinese New Year, we chatted some times. ok.when we started working again,he was almost out of touch with me.......in March,he sent  a text and posted a picture on his wechat....a girl and him...


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Reply IMNONARCISSUS 2015-10-23 18:56
Your story sonds fine!
Reply Tange 2015-10-23 20:43
a love story ...
Reply teadrinking 2015-10-23 21:17
The feeling between people is normal and nature. We can not tell if it is good or not. Actually there is  no absolute good answer to it. The point is we feel fine if we are with people we like together, it does not matter where the relation is going to be at.

You both had the right answer to each other after he showed the feeling on you. That is why you two can contintue to go well as friends with honesty. People have the rights to express who the love and what they like. And people also have the rights to accept whether they say yes or no about someones' crush on them.
Reply sunnyv 2015-10-24 00:17
People say ''when god made a girl, he also made a boy for her'' but it god don't make it easy for you to find that other half. You are a clear minded and resolute girl. Every girl knows that special magnetic feeling when you come across your Mr. Right. Apparently, this is not your perfect Mr. Right. Other people also say that ''time cultivates love''. I am not so sure, but sometimes time passes us by and our power to choose slowly diminish and we may have to surrender and choose the nearest one. I really don't know how two people can live together in matrimony when there is no deep love, but being friends is acceptable, so your decision to treat him as your friend is correct and beneficial to both of you. You do not have to disconnect the relationship. Just let it go on and see what happens later. To be sorry is better than regret.

Seems you have some advantage on your side, so you can afford to wait. No need to commit yourself into an irreversible situation. Fate works in mysterious ways, so you can let fate decide your future relationships.
Reply Flora.Q 2015-10-24 11:03
IMNONARCISSUS: Your story sonds fine!
Write these, I feel much better in my heart.
Reply Flora.Q 2015-10-24 11:06
Tange: a love story ...
thanks for reading this story.
Reply Flora.Q 2015-10-24 11:13
teadrinking: The feeling between people is normal and nature. We can not tell if it is good or not. Actually there is  not absolute good answer to it. The point is ...
Now  the relationship between us is the best, I will keep going. A t the same time, I hope my Mr.Right come soon.
Reply Flora.Q 2015-10-24 11:35
sunnyv: People say ''when god made a girl, he also made a boy for her'' but it god don't make it easy for you to find that other half. You are a clear minded  ...
some people ask me“do you have a boyfriend?” I always answer"no!" They think I have a high demand of my bf,actually not. They often say someone is in good condition,and advise me to consider,but in my heart I am very direct, if I don't have any feeling on someone, I will tell him. I often tell my friends that I want to find someone when I meet him, I can  feel my heartbeat. but they tell me,it ’s not the old to feel heartbeat,it‘s better to have someone really loves you and cares about you. Although there are some good boys around me,what I insist  all the time is:being moved is not love. So best wishes to myself.
Reply IMNONARCISSUS 2015-10-24 14:26
Flora.Q: Write these, I feel much better in my heart.
   Your story is expected to be contiued.
Reply Flora.Q 2015-10-24 15:16
IMNONARCISSUS:    Your story is expected to be contiued.
   I will write something here in the future  and welcome to read it.
Reply Lynnshine 2015-10-24 20:31
Flora.Q:    I will write something here in the future  and welcome to read it.
I suppose he will not give up chasing you even if you refuse him
Reply lovingfun 2015-10-25 15:44
Have no comment on that, but the choices should be made for you. Anyway, it is good that you have a friend to hang around.
Reply Flora.Q 2015-10-26 11:06
lovingfun: Have no comment on that, but the choices should be made for you. Anyway, it is good that you have a friend to hang around.
don't you have a good friend to hang out
Reply Flora.Q 2015-10-26 11:09
Lynnshine: I suppose he will not give up chasing you even if you refuse him
no,no,no .if he keeps,maybe we won't be friends anymore. we said on that special day we just be friens.
Reply Lynnshine 2015-10-26 11:43
Flora.Q: no,no,no .if he keeps,maybe we won't be friends anymore. we said on that special day we just be friens.
Maybe he will not give up entirely even if quitting seemingly. If I were him,I will not quit unless you have BF
Reply Flora.Q 2015-10-26 15:50
Lynnshine: Maybe he will not give up entirely even if quitting seemingly. If I were him,I will not quit unless you have BF
you really have the patience. If I were a boy, the girl who said she didn't like me ,  I will give up and to find someone who really likes me and I also like her,I know it‘s very difficult.
Reply lovingfun 2015-10-26 16:34
Flora.Q: don't you have a good friend to hang out
Haha, I guess that you know what I mean, you just choose neglect the things which is troublesome to think.
Reply Flora.Q 2015-10-26 18:26
   so smart
Reply 2amlittle 2015-10-27 19:00
It sounds sweet and romantic
Reply Flora.Q 2015-10-28 10:52
2amlittle: It sounds sweet and romantic
haha,you also have  this experience,right?
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