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Hot 6556 views. 2016-4-15 16:25 | ordinary, husband, friends, person, junior

I am not an ambitious person and easy satisfied, this is what I am in my friends’ eyes. Indeed, I agree with them. Keep a peaceful mind is what I pursuer for.

Almost two years ago, I got married, my husband is an ordinary person too, and his parents left him both when his was in junior high school. We got married with no one‘s help, no house, no money, we only have each other. I think life is not easy for anyone who lived in Shenzhen, everything is so expensive, and we never thought to buy a house here.

I will take my maternity leave next Wednesday; there is still a month to prepare to welcome my baby, my husband will send me back to my hometown and my mother will take care of me, for the last night months, I took care of myself, did everything all by myself, sometimes, I felt so unhappy because I was on the verge of crazy, but whenever I felt sad, my baby would move in my bally, I  know baby can feel me, so I tried to control my mood.

I will be a mother, I have to be strong and brave, and I will try my best to be a good mother.

Post comment Comment (12 replies)

Reply Rosanna 2016-4-15 17:25
so happy that you will be a new mother within one month later, you are really great take care yourself during the hard time of women life.
Reply sunnyv 2016-4-15 17:30
There are lots of things to think about when getting married. A house, some savings for future children and and living expenses. You were not tied down by these things and got a simple marriage. Is this simple good? Hard to say but at least you are now married and also having a child soon.

Other parents would say that this kind of marriage is irresponsible and just pushing the problems to a later date. I am not sure if that is true but every marriage would have challenges, so I hope you can control all the problems that may come in the future.

You will face a lot of new problems when the baby arrive. It would be good if your parents can look after the baby while you work, otherwise, future expenses would be a problem.

Now that you are in the final stage of pregnancy, just keep a peaceful heart and mind, eat and sleep well for the sake of a healthy baby, then think about how to raise the child after birth.

Don't think too much at this time. Just relax and solve the problems later. Wish you have a bouncy lovely baby. Take care.
Reply teadrinking 2016-4-15 20:00
The living cost in Shenzhen is kind of high, and now has already caused some people's reconsideration about if they should continue to stay there or not. This phenomenon is quite normal, particularly, in those metropolices, such as Beijing and Shanghai.

A little far I said. Well, this could be ok as I see that you two have already find the feeling of being there more or less. Though the life sometimes tells us hardship and toughness, while we can go on, especially with the companion of best beloved. Your husband is there, and now you are gonna be mother of your kid.

Congratuations. Wish you are well in everything. Do not be too sensitive and sentimental, also emotional which is not so good for kid. Think about that you are goona be the mom, you should be surely gratateful for being gifted.

A siimple also has its own happiness as long as you do it well as a peaceful mind. The kid will totally change your life. I feel happy for you. Go on.
Reply teadrinking 2016-4-15 20:04
sunnyv: There are lots of things to think about when getting married. A house, some savings for future children and and living expenses. You were not tied dow ...
After giving the birth, there would be many new problems as you listed. But I think it is gonna be all right, anyway, we do have some ways to solve them only if we can be prepared well in advance.

Bless her with our best wishes.
Reply sunnyv 2016-4-15 20:14
teadrinking: After giving the birth, there would be many new problems as you listed. But I think it is gonna be, anyway, we do have some ways to solve them only if ...
Agree.
Reply Tange 2016-4-16 19:52
congratulation,  now you become a great mother ..
life is not easy , we all known about it .
Reply yvonneandmandy 2016-4-17 20:59
Maybe my condition is a little same with you. Since my husband, do not have mother and his father's eyes is too weak to take care of himself. So we must live on ourself. Before the birth of my daughter, i take the life so easy.but actually life is more difficult than what we thought before.
But i must learn to bear all the difficulty since it is my choice.
But my daughter grew healthy and politely , that is the happiest thing in my life.
The difficuly will be in the first few years but things will be better as time does on.
Reply lijuanandrea 2016-4-18 17:10
Rosanna: so happy that you will be a new mother within one month later, you are really great take care yourself during the hard time of women life.
thank you  
Reply lijuanandrea 2016-4-18 17:14
sunnyv: There are lots of things to think about when getting married. A house, some savings for future children and and living expenses. You were not tied dow ...
sure, it is a  lot to face up, but i have the confident to handle all the things in front of me. problems in life will push us forward and be mature.
Reply lijuanandrea 2016-4-18 17:18
yvonneandmandy: Maybe my condition is a little same with you. Since my husband, do not have mother and his father's eyes is too weak to take care of himself. So we mu ...
thanks for ur encouragement, i will try my best and learn from you
Reply lijuanandrea 2016-4-18 17:21
teadrinking: The living cost in Shenzhen is kind of high, and now has already caused some people's reconsideration about if they should continue to stay there or n ...
    thank you , i feel better and more brave with all your encouragment. best wishes to you too.
Reply windie 2016-4-18 17:48
In fact, I kind of admire your courage to step into marrigae no matter it was  by chance or in design. I'm just too scared to go into that "city". I once tried, but just cowered at the last moment for fear of the thing you have listed above. Everything happens for a reason. At the time they may seem terrible, puzzling, or even miserable, but without getting over those difficulties, we would never realize our further ability and strenth. You have your husband, your baby who will give you strenth and courage to face them, all the difficulties known or unknown. Wish your baby healthy and lovely and clever.

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