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In the forum, I find that there are too many students who want to apply for US universities. It's amazing those are comrades. At the same time, I feel very desperate. Those are better qualified than me. I am at the bottom of the application list. Why me take part in this fierce competition?
I am in blue. However, after seeing this, I get better. Especially this paragraph, I share it with you in the following.
“身边的朋友都陆续收到美国大学的offer，我的心里开始激动起来，开始沉不住气。阿兰德波顿说得好，对身份的焦虑在朋友的成功面前暴露无遗，尤其是你认为和你在一个层次上并且和你为同一个目标奋斗的朋友，当他们兴高采烈地告诉你他们已经拿到著名大学的offer时，当他们神采飞扬告诉你他们拿到顶级咨询公司offer时，我们还能保持住一份心灵的宁静吗？我们还能坚持守候着自己心中的终极梦想吗？也许大多数人，都已经迷失，但我一定要清醒。我抬头看着面前墙上挂着的誓言：‘坚持自己的事业，决不放弃绝不退缩，梦想就在彼岸’，我将内心泛起的波澜微微抚平。我们看得见的永远是人家的成功，而看不见的是人家背后的努力。为了昙花一现的光辉，为了出人头地的荣耀，背后的艰辛又岂是其他人能体会得到的？当朋友们兴致勃勃地宣告他的成就时，他绝对不会花时间想你讲述背后的艰辛，这会给你一种错觉，就是别人的成功都是轻而易举的，这时候你为自己努力和艰辛却不一定得到回报产生了极大的怀疑，如果你对自己的努力怀疑了，如果你选择放弃，如果你怨天尤人，那么你对不起曾经的努力，你不配拥有成功；你也失去了唯一的机会。”
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- strive for dreams, never give up.
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- Hang in there my friend. Success belongs to those who believe their dreams and don't abandon them easily.
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