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It is a long time not to visit here. I have experienced many things lately. I must make a choice but I don't know
how to select it. I have been confused for a long time. I want to take postgraduate entrance exams but I have
no much money, I need to live dependent on it. Maybe I should find a job but what can I do. I have no a teacher
certificate, therefor I can't take the teacher exams. I know I have to wait wait wait……
but the process indeed is really painful, I have to find a part—time job to make some money. At the moment, I can see there are two ways before me, one way is that I want to go,
the other is one I have to go ahead.I have been confused for many days. I want to chase down my dream,
but there is a feeling that I am afraid to make a wrong decision, afraid to be hurt, afraid to fail in the future.
I can't trust myself 100% that I am able to decide my life and make my own way.
Lately, I have read one article. There is one sentence, that is "creativity is an attitude an initiative、positive、independent and responsible—for
all attitude for life. 'creativity' is not a career job or situation.
Never be someone who ' always follow other's step" that just like "take medicine but do nothing to
improve your habitus" little by little lose the spontaneous healing for disease. Actually,
I know I am the only one who can figure it out all the solutions. I can listen to others' advices
but I can't wish they can give me a correct solution or choice. I don't follow other's step when
make my own way.
It is a time for me to make a choice. No matter what will happen, I should not regret or complain,
I will be responsible for all in my life. No matte what is painful or happy, all is my mine, that is my life.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Without cultivation, there would no harvest. All the good things in life needs to be obtained by true efforts. Teaching is a professional career and it would be great if you could obtain the needed qualificiations. You have to decide whether you have the financial resources to complete the course. It would be exhaustive if you choose to support your studying by working part time. Part time work offers little money, so you may need other sources of finance. It is indeed a difficult decision and I can understand why you are so worried, confused and frustrated. Cool down and get yourself organised. Think about the whole thing calmly and make a sensible decision. Sometimes, we have to take risks, but the risks have to be carefuilly calculated. I sincerely hope your wish would come true.
- Reply empty~empty
- NO matter which way you choosed,if you could keep your passion and take great effort for it all the time ,you must be well done and show yourself completely.SO don't worried ,just follow your heart and take action right now.May you happy honey.
- Reply redapple2
- Life is not easy. This term I have a part-time job, and I do think to earn money is not a easy thing. If you want to take the postgraduate exam, you'd better focus your mind on it. Of course, you also can be a tutor to make some money to support you. Provided that you can balance both your study and your job. Everything is gonna be fine.
- Reply fatty
- don't think too much on which choice is approprate to you, maybe considering about what your are interested in is more improtant and timely.
By the way, there are still enough time for you to do both things, therefore, you can cost some time to have a try on both choices.
Good luck and be happy
- Reply yaping
- To be honest, i am also confused about the thing, i need a part-job to make some money,then i am ready for the postgraduated exam~ But i believe in myself,then i think u should keep eyes on urself,u can do it better. Just go ahead,don't feel afraid!
- Reply Elinor
- thank you for your encouragement, i will never give up.I believe you can also achieve your dream.
- Reply Elinor
- sunnyv: Without cultivation, there would no harvest. All the good things in life needs to be obtained by true efforts. Teaching is a professional career and iyeah, you are right, sometimes, we need to take risks, we must make a choice trough a careful consideration. Thanks for your advice, i will make a sensible decision.
- Reply Elinor
- empty~empty: NO matter which way you choosed,if you could keep your passion and take great effort for it all the time ,you must be well done and show yourself cothank you, i will follow my heart. May you happy too, honey.
- Reply Elinor
- Dorisxu: Trust yourself, tomorrow will be better...yeah, tomorrow will be better, good luck to you!
- Reply Elinor
- redapple2: Life is not easy. This term I have a part-time job, and I do think to earn money is not a easy thing. If you want to take the postgraduate exam, you'dthanks for ur advice, your advice is fine, maybe i will try.
- Reply Elinor
- lgityt: throw a coin to sky.....guess one side to your decision.This is not a bad advice.
thank you
- Reply Elinor
- fatty: don't think too much on which choice is approprate to you, maybe considering about what your are interested in is more improtant and timely.If I focus on both things, i am afraid that i have no enough time and energy to spend on them. Sometimes, we only need to do one thing but we must make it excellent. Thank you for your suggestions, i am also appreciated that very much.
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