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It’s such a common to hear that someone says “life is so hard” in recent years, especially in this year, actually, I wonder to know that why the life becomes even harder while the development of the economy and the improvement in all sides of situation.

In my viewpoint, to say “life is so hard” is a kind of expression of the inner emotion whereas there is no such a standard for the level of lifestyle since there is no such a definition of happiness, or, in other words, happiness cannot be exactly measured. That means although the material condition is really important and close related with such feeling of happiness but it’s not the essential aspect, in this sense, how you are feeling about your life now or whether such a feeling is easily affected by the external environment is the key issue.

In fact, there is no denying that the internal feeling is always influenced by the external environment, and what’s interesting is that such a connection becomes even closer due to the increasing distances of living level amongst people during these yeas in the most cases. For me, I hold the belief that the feelings always come from the internal while the external phenomenon is just objective and you could choose either to accept or change it.

Back to the definition of happiness, does the real happiness exists? I choose to deem it does exist, in my opinion, such existence is limited by the following two points: firstly, such feeling might last for a dramatic short period; secondly, the feeling of happiness is most likely caused by reasons which are remarkable diversified.

To sum up, “life is so hard!”such a feeling might be caused by both external and internal sides, in other words, maybe in such a situation, either life is not so hard compared with others or even much harder than others, such a feeling would always come most likely due to the limitation in capability and so forth. While the standard or the definition of happy life cannot be easily classified, to get rid of such a feeling is simple but difficult, that is, to change your mind internally and be more optimistic to the external phenomenon, how about trying that from now on?

PS: It has been a really long time that I haven’t update anything here, and I just want to mark the day today to make such a decision that I will try my best to upload at least one article each week from now on. Hope all of my friends are going very well these years!