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I was so mad

630 views. 2011-2-23 14:01 |Individual Classification:home decoration journey

I was so mad at him. I stormed and paced and considered breaking things, except that I liked everything in my room and I didn’t really want to break any of my belongings. But if now I could only have gotten my hands on him, then I probably would have broken a thing or two.

For the record, I am not a violent person, nor even a tempered one. But this man always has a way to break my self-control. Oh, really, why every husband has to be such a pain in the ass sometimes?

How many times have I discussed with him about that damn decorating budget? I kept everything in record and I even sent him a copy! After all those troubles, One can't help but expect that he would know, if not all the details, at least a thing or two about our most pressing problem….but no! This man’s ears, like always, automatically shut my voice out and his mind, like an amazing filter, stubbornly ignored any messages coming from my whereabouts.

Ok, if I were some nagging wife, I probably would understand his crazy absent-mindedness. But everybody knows I am a person of few words and I am always a listener rather than a talker.

And he even had balls to blame me!

Why is it so hard to communicate with the man you married? Did I have to pull his ear and shout my lungs out so that he would hear a word or two? Oh, that might work!

Post comment Comment (14 replies)

Reply cgmichael 2011-2-23 15:31
you are a funny couple,heart to heart communication is the best way to remove the misunderstanding in family.
Reply sunnyv 2011-2-23 15:40
Oh mama mia, you are boiling with anger. You don't know about the seven years itch? After a few years of marriage, all the sweetness should be gone and start to turn sour. The reality of difficult family finances sets in. Income and expenses are frequent topics of argument. Husbands sometimes cannot face the pressures of insufficient income and resort to carefree or irresponsible attitudes. Try your best to resolve the matter.
Reply bluephoebe 2011-2-23 15:59
sunnyv: Oh mama mia, you are boiling with anger. You don't know about the seven years itch? After a few years of marriage, all the sweetness should be gone an
thanks for your advice. perhaps i should get accustom to this, though sometimes it's not easy.
Reply bluephoebe 2011-2-23 16:01
cgmichael: you are a funny couple,heart to heart communication is the best way to remove the misunderstanding in family.
perhaps i was overreacted. i just felt slighted. yes, heart to heart communication is the best way for communication. heart to stone never ends well
Reply rich 2011-2-23 17:25
i cannot help but smile. but no offence. i just feel there must be something really bad or irritable that made you angry. it's understandable. arguments or even fights are normal between couples. when men don't have a good solution to a existing problem, sometimes they just take an i-don't-care attitude. it may take time for one to have a clear idea about a certain matter before a decision is made, go to the window, admire the view in the distance and take a deep breath, you may find that there's nothing that needs worrying about in the world.
Reply Jamesonhao 2011-2-23 17:54
Many couples argued, fought on the issues of decoration, which is a so damn complicated thing that may annoy nearly all the owners. Once before, one of my collegues seriously warned me not to make any decisions on decoration, for that is lady's business, always.
Reply davidhuang 2011-2-23 20:41
don't worry about this. this is a common thing for a couple. i believe you still love each other. love can solve everything! hoping you are feeling better soon and good luck!
Reply Noyu 2011-2-23 21:42
thouth i am a university student,i want to say some of my thoughts.
just find the true problem...
Reply bluephoebe 2011-2-24 09:08
rich: i cannot help but smile. but no offence. i just feel there must be something really bad or irritable that made you angry. it's understandable. argumen
of course i am not offended. the fact is, even i felt a little funny about that.  like many any other couples, we fights, we make up, and life goes on. i prefer to think that is the true version of live-happily-for-ever ending.
Reply bluephoebe 2011-2-24 09:14
Jamesonhao: Many couples argued, fought on the issues of decoration, which is a so damn complicated thing that may annoy nearly all the owners. Once before, one o
Every one has a different thought about their idea house. that's why decoration often causes tension and troubles between the couples. you know marriage is all about adjustment and compromise. but really, who would like to give in easily about their dream home? added with financial stress, it's really a bloody business.
Reply bluephoebe 2011-2-24 09:16
davidhuang: don't worry about this. this is a common thing for a couple. i believe you still love each other. love can solve everything! hoping you are feeling be
thanks for caring. of course we still love each other. occasionaly fights are healthy for a marriage, don't you think?
Reply bluephoebe 2011-2-24 09:17
Noyu: thouth i am a university student,i want to say some of my thoughts.
just find the true problem...
couples often fight over trivial matters. the best way to deal with it is never take it too seriously. good luck and happy everyday, my friend.
Reply Jamesonhao 2011-2-24 15:47
bluephoebe: Every one has a different thought about their idea house. that's why decoration often causes tension and troubles between the couples. you know marria
I appreciate your words 'adjustment and compromises', but anyway, it depends.
Reply Noyu 2011-2-24 21:43
bluephoebe: couples often fight over trivial matters. the best way to deal with it is never take it too seriously. good luck and happy everyday, my friend.
you are so deep in the love.wish you and your hasband grow old together.
hehe,together.

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