I never understand why someone would prefer to give up their independence---their freedom for such a meaningless and shameful existence. I can’t imagine a single day which I could spend contently at home, out of job, without any income, and doing nothing about it! If I were in such a situation, I would fight tooth and nail to find a job---any job. Forget the job of my dreams, first comes first, I have to stand on my own feet, and then I can make some arranges for my future.

     The parents of NEET group should also be blamed for such a phenomenon. No matter how much they want to give their children everything in the world, how much they want to protect them from the cruel reality, as parents they should know it’s their responsibilities to let them go when the time is coming. A mother hawk would kick her children off the cliff, so her children would finally learn to fly in the sky. A father lion would drive his grow-up children away home and tell them: "I would bite you if you ever edge into my territory again, and it’s time to find your own land now.” So his children would finally grow up into the king of the jungle. Therefore if you ever want your NEET son or daught to become a responsible human being, take your heart to cut him/her off; if you want them to hate you, then continue to feed them until one day they finally bite your hand.