In this year, I got fruitful achievements, and marriage is the most  one.

Nowadays, there are many “leftover ladies” in Shanghai, they are well-educated, well-paid, and independent.  They owned car and house by themselves. Why they couldn’t find their Mr. Right?  Why they don’t care their marriage issue when they were 20’s-year-old?

I have some friends who are at the age of marriage, but still single, I always sigh that if the girl whose age over 30-year-old, it’s really hard to find the one, I do not deny they may meet their Mr.right in near future, but the chance is seldom, am I right? 

My suggestion is simple, on one hand, you could ask your colleagues and friends to introduce someone to you, please keep your attitude peace when you meet the one they introduced to you, no question on house, car as well as salary, just talk something about spirit and ideal life.  On the other hand, you need to prepare your future by yourself, and you could register some courses, like piano, painting, dancing as well as cooking, everything need preparation. 

When I registered to learn drive to get the license, I encountered a girl at 33-year-old who has a degree of PhD, still single, I deeply touched.  I am afraid if I can’t marry when I am 30-year-old, I will be in a mess.  I need to find someone to marry with me, I told my teacher about my thought, and he’d like to help me who is a 40’s-year-old native Shanghainess. 

Our social life is limited, but we could ask support from the people around us.  Fortunately, I met my husband in the end who introduced by my drive teacher and senior schoolfellow who is also a 40’s-year-old native Shanghainess, just told my cell# and name to my honey by them, all following activities we arranged by ourselves, however, sincerely thank my drive teacher and senior schoolfellow.

It’s really difficult to find the one to marry with.  Nevertheless, we still should have the sunshine attitude toward it, never give it up.  You have the right to pursue and grasp your happiness.

Good luck.