Arrage your aging is a fresh but practical idea.

    I got this idea from a little essay by Bishumin, a female psychologist in China. In her essay she mentioned a group of Japanese women carred out an unique contest that whose arragement of aging was perfect. The standard of the winner was whose death made least impact on her around alives. It is intersting, isn't it?

    Compared with most of us, we should want to avoid this word of death or bypass it rather than to face it directly. In fact it is well kown that immortality never existed. The limit of our life make it more deserves to be treasured. Why not make every phrase of our life wonderful?

   Then what can we do when we get to sixty years old?

   First, you'd better make a decision about allocation of your wealth in case you commit a sudden death, your heirs get into a mess of accounts. There had been too many scandals of fighting for the money left by famous person who dead unexpectedly. Do you want your children quarrel for your wealth during the rest of their life after your death? Even if there was only one heir of you, your complicated and confused accounts will make he or she mad. He or she may not thank for your presents!

   Second,you'd better convert your facilities into elder-oriented ones. Age will bring many unexceptable changes to our bodies, so well preparation is essential. You can clear the waste in your house, make your house more easy to use, buy some especial equipments for you such as a massage chair or emergency aid kit. Maybe you should consider to move to a house near the hospital or full of fresh air according to your own situation.

   The third thing is to accept your age completely. You'd better to forget your past no matter how proud or sad it was. It is totally not necessary to shout at the youth that" I had done something so well ~~~" It is advisable to deal with your memories such as diaries, books, photoes, etc. properly. You must kown that after your death, everything about you had gone. No one would spend most his life to study your life except your were a very very famous person who is out of scope of my article. Maybe somebody want to kown something of you or see some images of you, but definitely he don't want the whole things. Trust me, most of children just burned the remains from their parents.

   Arrange a perfect aging is kind of attitude toward your life. It means you have full control and responsibility to you own life, and never complain or disturb others. Even if you don't leave a single photoes, you children will miss you mostly because of your consideration for others.